I Hate Jill Zarin What is Jill Zarin Up To Now?
The New York City Housewives have got some time on their hands. You know what they say about idle hands and getting into trouble. Their show was scheduled to be airing right now so they most likely planned their lives around that. We know that they had some premier party plans to cancel but interviews and television appearances sometimes will go on as planned regardless of Bravo’s stupidity.
The ladies can’t talk about the show, they can’t discuss what has aired since nothing has aired so what is there to talk about? The weather? Fashion? Medical issues? Not Jill Zarin! Jill is determined to link herself to Bethenny Frankel forever it seems.
Jill doesn’t talk about her current cast mates, her husband or her daughter. Jill’s favorite topic of discussion is Bethenny Frankel.
Jill recently spoke to Rob Shuter of Popeater, here’s what she had to say:
“The truth is, I don’t even remember being friends with her anymore, you know, when I see her picture and when I see her on TV, I don’t even remember our relationship. Which kinda says something.”
Really Jill? We know you have a bad memory but we also know you have every episode saved on your Tivo and watch Season’s one and two on a regular basis. You remember those episodes? The ones where people actually liked you. That should refresh your memory of your friendship with Bethenny.
Bethenny was there for you when that damn husband of yours got you that brand new crappy car that wouldn’t even support your I-phone. She was there too when you slammed Simon VanKempen in the New York Post, calling him a drunk, remember? Bethenny was right beside you too when you tried to get Alex booted off the show.
Bethenny was the one you laid in bed with talking about your future and hers. Bethenny’s hopes and dreams of having a thriving business, a loving husband and a child. She talked about all of the things that she now has but you weren’t part of all that because you’d rather scheme and plot against people than celebrate their accomplishments.
Rather than sending Bethenny a Congratulations card, you sent her a one-star horrible review on Amazon.com, no sweet email when her baby girl was born, rather you sent a tweet hours before the baby was born announcing that she had a baby boy. Instead of celebrating Bethenny’s new show, you tried to get cast mates to refuse to film with her. Rather than supporting Bethenny’s accomplishments, you made a list of her crimes against Jill Zarin. What is wrong with you Jill Zarin?
Now you’re doing the talk show circuit and you’re pushing that horrible book on everyone again! Your sister sounds ridiculous telling people that the book has been translated into several different languages yet it hasn’t hit the New York Times Bestseller list, and your sister wrote a whole additional chapter, why? Your family has suddenly become experts on “Bullying”. Were you a bully as a child? Were you bullied? You’re certainly a bully now, we saw you bully Bethenny, Alex and Ramona last season.
On March 9, Jill Zarin Tweeted the link to the new trailer for The Real Housewives of New York no less than six times, she tweeted it to Cindy, to Sonja, to Kelly, to Ramona and to Alex and just in case anyone missed those five tweets, she tweeted it two more times just to her followers in general. She absolutely had to be the first to show her cast mates the latest Bravo release. I’m honestly surprised she didn’t tweet it to her old fake friend Bethenny!
It is clear to anyone paying attention that Bethenny has moved on from all of this Jill nonsense, why can’t Jill move on? She was most relevant when she was bullying Bethenny, people talked about her most when she was behaving badly, is she trying to bring all of that back to the forefront? Jill has “real” friends in Kelly and Luann, right?
In the newest preview for The Real Housewives of New York we see Jill saying, “I can change, I have changed”. Which is it? Can you change or have you changed? I can’t wait to see the change in Jill Zarin!
Similar to Ramona’s renewal, I don’t expect Jill to change and become someone that she’s not. The change that I’d like to see in Jill is pretty simple, stop being so vicious to people. Show some empathy and sympathy for people. Take a deep breath before you speak, count to ten and think before you open your mouth. The constant biting, vicious words have to stop but more importantly Jill needs to stop trying to ruin lives, ruin careers and stop trying to go after people’s livelihood! If Jill would simply put herself into other people’s position for just a moment, she wouldn’t be so mean and so cruel to people.
If Jill would treat everyone as if they’re someone she cares about, even if someone hurts her, talk it out. Don’t plan and scheme and plot against that person. Just be nice Jill Zarin! Can you do that?
I don’t expect Jill to become a doormat and let people rip her apart, certainly defend yourself, certainly avoid people who are negative in your life but attacking everyone and hitting below the belt makes you look petty and small not to mention vicious and mean.
Bethenny recently appeared on Watch What Happens Live where she was inevitably asked about all of Jill’s recent comments about their friendship, absolutely flabbergasted as the rest of us are, Bethenny clearly didn’t want to talk about it. Jill’s digs at Bethenny stating that Bethenny will ask interviewers in advance not to bring up Jill Zarin are probably true. Jill is too blind to see that Bethenny’s refusal to talk about Jill is more to Jill’s benefit as Bethenny could easily get a lot of mileage out of making fun of Jill. Jill keeps bringing it up as a slam at Bethenny but I believe that Bethenny is doing Jill a favor by trying to stay off the subject of their “Friendship”. Would Jill prefer if Bethenny brought up all the horrible things that Jill did to her last year? Does Jill want Bethenny to slam her the way Jill continues to slam Bethenny. Because I’ll tell you one thing, Bethenny is way better at it than Jill is. Bethenny could really rip Jill a new one but good and would be well within her rights to do so. Yet Bethenny would rather avoid the subject which is the classy thing to do.
As Bethenny tours the country making personal appearances, Bethenny refuses to say anything bad about Jill Zarin, she flat out tells the audience not to ask her any questions or try to get her to slam Jill. Her reason? She insists that they were at one time friends and Bethenny refuses to say a bad word about a friend, present or past. Yes, that is a class act and Jill could take a lesson from her ex-friend Bethenny!
This is a site announcing the return of the Real Housewives of New York, it includes a poll asking which NY Housewife you’ll be rooting for this season, I think the results speak for themselves: (please vote for anyone but Jill Zarin!)
Now I don’t want anyone to panic, but Jill may just unfollow you on Twitter, she may find you uninteresting or disloyal so I suggest you all get on Twitter and entertain Jill Zarin and fast! She tweeted this the other day:
@JillZarin: Cleaning up Following list this week. if I don’t think interesting or your not a real friend..I am taking off list. Too hard to read 652!
They say you can judge people by the company that they keep, take another look at Jill’s very good friend Patti Stanger. At the beginning of this video, Patti Stanger is talking to Jill Zarin on the phone, they’re talking about Bethenny and her new show:
This web site did an interview with Jill, her sister Lisa and her mother Gloria, you may have to search in the bottom right corner “Jill Zarin” to find the article and video’s but they’re worth watching. The first video is priceless, especially if you watch Gloria’s face while Jill tells a story and Lisa interrupts the entire time….hysterical! This family has some REALLY twisted thoughts about life.
If anyone has purchased and/or read the new chapter of Jill’s book on Bullying, I’d love to hear from you and get your take on it, I haven’t seen or heard anything about it yet.
Bravo has release two more previews of The Real Housewives of New York
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