I Hate Jill Zarin The Real Housewives of New York Let’s Chat!

I Hate Jill Zarin  The Real Housewives of New York  Let’s Chat


I know you’ve all heard me say this a thousand times, Jill has a staff and that staff infiltrates the internet with Pro-Jill Zarin comments and statements at every turn.  I know she has fans, I’ve seen them and I pray for them because I simply can’t understand the way that their brains work.  Luckily their numbers are few.

Here we have a week that three major, well-respected internet sites are finally seeing what we’ve been seeing and I’ve been reporting for a few years now.  Jill and her paid staff are commenting on Real Housewives articles on the internet with pro-Jill comments at every turn. 

These aren’t just hobby bloggers like me and Real City Housewife saying this, now we have Reality Tea, Gawker and The Today Show sites saying what I’ve been saying all along.  Did they just realize this?  Maybe but it is also possible that before they just didn’t care that much or that they covered so many different shows and networks that they really didn’t notice.  They notice now, why?  Probably because Jill and her people went overboard.  They didn’t have the common sense to take it easy and just post a few comments a day. 

Gawker reported over a dozen pro-Jill comments that came out of nowhere with names that haven’t been seen on Gawker before.  Similar to our site, there are regular posters on Gawker, where have these Jill fanatics been for the past four years?  They suddenly decided today would be a good day to create a pro-Jill Zarin name and post on Gawker? 

Jill truly does think that viewers, fans and bloggers are stupid or at least that she’s smarter than we are, unfortunately for Jill, she’s wrong.  Gawker and Today are only just catching up to what we here at IHJZ have known for years.  Once Jill was caught posting on Amazon with a fake name, nothing would surprise me.  Jill may not be doing this with her own two hands but she is definitely directing the ship, she has PR people, she has her trusted assistant Darren and she has two young girls from Australia who think the sun rises and sets on Jill Zarin. 

Of course Jill Zarin has fans, Charles Manson has fans, The Menendez brothers get fan mail in jail.  Some people are crazy and cannot see what rational thinking people can see.  Jill didn’t murder anyone (that we know of) and she isn’t the anti-Christ, she is simply not a good person.  She is mean, vindictive and cruel.  She doesn’t care how badly she hurts people as long as she wins.  Bethenny said it best, she didn’t want to win and have Jill lose because if Jill loses, they all lose.  Why?  Because Jill is vicious.  She will stop at nothing to get back at someone for looking at her the wrong way. 

Jill has a few people who did not like her behavior last season, they agreed that she was wrong to treat Bethenny the way that she did but have bought into Jill’s “change” this season.  I have to ask those people why they think Jill has changed?  What makes them believe that she’s changed?  She hasn’t proved it at all.  The opening episode Jill called Alex McCord a bitch and said that she was socializing above her level.  Is Jill correct?  It doesn’t really matter whether or not you like Alex McCord, you have to focus on what Jill said and what Jill does, is this a good person?  Or is this the person that Cindy described when she was referring to Ramona, “Her core is not good”.  Cindy must have been channeling the woman sitting in the room with her because I don’t think that Ramona has a bad core.  We watch Ramona week after week putting her foot in her mouth but she isn’t being purposely vicious or vile.  She is being a ditz and a bit of a fool but I honestly don’t think it is something she does with the intent of hurting someone’s personal and private life the way Jill does.  Ramona seems to realize after the fact that she’s hurt someone’s feelings and after watching herself on the show she actually does apologize. 

Jill is focused, she’s calculating and she plans out what she is going to do to someone, how she will ruin them, when plan A fails she moves on to plan B.  Have you seen Jill’s U-Stream video’s?  She doesn’t work alone, she has a team and she uses the team for a diverse purpose.  Her hair stylist may be one of those Gawker commenters.  Her assistant Darren has been banned from Twitter by his master but don’t think for a moment that he doesn’t Tweet, I would bet the farm (Quincy’s farm because I don’t have one) that Darren is one of those Gingerettes who tweets sweet nothings to Jill all day.  Jill has a large extended family, we already know that her daughter posts right here on IHJZ calling us all idiots but how many other places does Ally Zarin post?  She hasn’t been back since we busted her on the last post, but that isn’t surprising.  We know that Jill’s nephew Jon is very active on the internet, for a while he was attacking Jill’s critics and even Andy Cohen on Twitter.  Is he one of Jill’s fans on Gawkers site?   

The one thing that has changed about Jill Zarin, she cries more this season and I predict that she will continue to cry all season.  Why?  Because she only sees the surface, she saw Bethenny crying with the red coat on by the black sedan.  She heard Sarah Jessica Parker say that seeing Bethenny like that was definitely a Carrie Bradshaw moment from Sex In The City.  Bethenny had tears in her eyes at Ramona’s house when she pleaded with Jill to forgive her and be her friend again, Jill had none.  Jill said after Bethenny left that day, “Am I a bitch because I’m not crying?”  I think most of us agreed that Jill was not only a bitch that day but that her heart was missing.  Jill isn’t smart enough to figure this out herself but her PR people might be.  I would bet anything that her plan this season is to cry cry cry me a river so that people will feel sorry for her. 

Bravo has released a few previews of tonight’s episode.  Apparently we’re going to learn something about Kelly Bensimon that we didn’t know and it is going to excuse all of her past behavior.  Last season I wrote a blog about Kelly that talked about her thinking and acting like a 13-year old.  Could there really be a legitimate explanation?  We’ll see….

The brunettes get together for dinner and discuss the trip to Morocco, a trip that Kelly claims she is not going to attend.  I’m sure that by season end we will hear that Kelly was forced to go once again by Bravo as we know that she does go to Morocco and she calls it the trip of a lifetime, let’s see if she has the same sentiment at the reunion as she argues with Andy Cohen about being forced to go on the trip.

Bravo’s preview videos also include a lunch meeting between Luann and Ramona, these are two women who speak but don’t hear each other.  Luann doesn’t want to listen, you would think by the time she’s reached her age she would realize that a conversation includes listening, not just lecturing.  I really feel for her children.  Ramona tries but fails to explain to Luann the situation between Ramona and Jill but Luann has blinders on as well as earplugs apparently.  Luann is right and everyone else is wrong, her mind is closed and she won’t be swayed by the truth damnit! 

Luann deLesseps is a unique woman and that isn’t a compliment.  She is not a typical housewife in that she doesn’t get overly involved in the internet nonsense, she is a Bravolebrity only while filming and is completely oblivious to anything else going on on Bravo.  (remember she had no idea who Caroline Manzo was)  I think it is safe to say that she does not watch any of the other housewife franchises and probably wouldn’t know Tom Colicchio or Tabatha Coffey if they walked right into her.  

Does anyone really believe that Luann deLesseps gives a damn about Ramona’s feelings?  Or about Jill’s for that matter?  Luann is doing what she has to do to get some camera time and the only thing she can do is get into the middle of battles between the other housewives, it is what she has done since day one.  Once filming is over, she goes back to her boyfriend and her fabulous life paid for by others and doesn’t think twice about any of her cast mates.   Get a job LuLu!

Gawker’s article about Jill’s fake fans…


Until Next Time…

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638 Responses to I Hate Jill Zarin The Real Housewives of New York Let’s Chat!

  1. lillybee says:

    I am thinking that Kelly’s secret may have something to do with 1979.

    • kotagirl29 says:

      She probably got cheated on by her boyfriend in 1979. He had a one-night stand and now she can’t trust men and thinks casual sex is icky.

    • lovemamaearth says:

      Judging by how Kelly thinks she was abused on the trip last year, I suspect SHE abused others and is now projecting to get sympathy.

    • Kittsmeow says:

      I hate What I’m about to say (•••kisses to Jesus•••), but I’m not surprised or mad at the fact that Kelly’s husband smacked her. I know that I’m not the only one that’s kinda wanted to smack some sense into that kray kray bird.

      • lovemamaearth says:

        I hope he sues her if it’s not true.

        • DJ Loops Fruit says:

          that was the big secret that Giles slapped her
          eyes rolling
          i would imagine there is a long line of people waiting to take thier turn
          ps no cutting unless you bring me Jelly beans LOL

        • sue says:

          I agree love. I truly do not believe she was abused, Sorry, but I really believe Kelly wants to be Bethenny sooo much that she concocted this “battered past” bit. I mean c’mon shes the one always spouting off that she came from the best family, she married the best man, “she created a wonderful life”…No, sorry, we are not buying it. To us we believe Kelly and her PR people think this is her way to sell books and try to get on “B’s” same level of success. This is Kellys way, she doesnt want to do the hard work to achieve something, she wants to make-up and create things just like she did w/her other nothing books,her stolen jewelry line,her made-up out of left field “Kelly-ade and her “not worth mentioning”college degrees. I mean c’mon this grand statement of hers comes on the heels of her announcing she is writing a “fitness,eating well, be happy book”,sounds a tad familiar huh?…Oh and whats up with Jill holding the bullying event, Jill was and basically admitted she was/is a bully!, Jill should have gotten up to speak after her step daughter to apologize to people for being a bully…That is it for us, we cant take these females anymore and we will be damned if we are going to let Kelly and Jill make anymore money or publicity from us. We love this blog, but we are upset. Bravo showed that fight at the baptism on RHONJ and that had kids involved, but they wont let us see the lost footage of SCAREY ISLAND so we can see this women be exposed for the phony liar she is!!!

          • nathania says:

            I just wonder if this was something Kelly threw out during her knee pad sessions with the production crew after Ramona slapped the producer…you know
            “mumble mumble mumble…”

            “what? oh wait a minute, okay, what were you saying?”

            “I was just saying that I, too, have been slapped across the face, and it is a horribly vile, abusive act”

            “shut up and resume…”

            “mumble mumble mumble…”

  2. Rabble Rouser says:

    Getting ready for the show to night- here is the game…every time Kelly says something stupid or crazy a sand angel gets their wings- so just think of it as she is handing out wings and celibate with a Ramona Pinot or a Skinnygirl cocktail.

  3. kotagirl29 says:

    I’m not sure how much more of this show I can take. I am just so over the b.s. Although I will admit that I am curious about Kookoo’s big reveal. Will I believe it? I don’t know?!? Kookoo is always saying that they create drama for television, so I have to wonder if she isn’t creating an incident from childhood to create good TV.

    • sue says:

      Exactly KOTA, and she didn’t even say her childhood, she said HER X-HUSBAND HIT HER!!!!!.Sorry, but you just do not come up w/something like that on camera! And big mouth Jill and Cindy never reacted, even after that dramatic hug LuMan gave Kelly, neither of them asked what it was about…Looks like Jill and Kelly’s worthless PR people have been hard at work!!!

  4. Rabble Rouser says:

    I getting ready for Cindy to accuse Ramona of stealing her hangers.

  5. Rabble Rouser says:

    “wahhhh she did it to me again…wahhhhh”

  6. Okie Folkie says:

    Rabble Rouser, I brought this over to continue, if any one wants to discuss further…..

    RR sez “Oh the dexter board on showcase, it seems like a lot of people hated Rita and the thought the two kids that played her son and daughter were horrible actors.”

    It did take me awhile to like Rita, but after several shows, I did like her and I loved those kids. I’ve never gone to the “Dexter” blogs. But, the lil boy was so cute, I thought.
    And I thought the girl did a good job, especially after Rita died, acting out, sneaking out, etc..

    AnyHOOOOOOOO, OUR show is now on!

    • Rabble Rouser says:

      I didn’t think the kids were that bad either, but on the showcase forum they were hated and most people thought Rita was okay but then turned into a PIA.

      The Julia Stiles character was interesting though.

      • Okie Folkie says:

        She did do her job very well. I kinda thinkin’ maybe she’ll show back up in Miami. Even though, she ‘won the battle she had to fight’, I think another love interest, possibly a few to several episodes in to the up coming Season????? thoughts….?

      • kotagirl29 says:

        I used to watch Dexter until I found out the chick that plays his sister is his girlfriend in real life.

        Wow what does that say about me? I’m okay with a serial killer plot line, but draw the line at incest even though its not incest. WTF is wrong with me?

        • Sweet Pea says:

          Actually, they married and divorced (Dexter and the actress that plays his sister). He dated Julia Stiles. Interesting dynamic on that show!

  7. VAgirl says:

    Luann needs a break from what? What does she do?

  8. error404 says:

    OK, we open with gratuitous fake scene. Um… Bravo made you all go on a trip together so they could film you ripping each other apart. We know. WE KNOW!

  9. MichellefromNY says:

    Jill is number one on luann’s speed dial??? huh???

  10. HD says:

    Luann acts like none of the women have ever been anywhere before.

  11. VAgirl says:

    Bobby says, Please Please Jill – Go and stay as long as you want.

  12. Nancy says:

    LuMan really needs to get over herself. If my husband just left me I wouldn’t want to go there with girlfriends soon after the break. For me that would be emotional 😦
    But not LuMan. Ice in her veins.

  13. boston02127 says:

    Get a load of the Christmas ornaments Luman has hanging on her neck.

    • MichellefromNY says:

      hahaha!!! boston you’re killing me! thats not a good look on her

    • PatnPhilly says:

      I thought they were jawbreakers

    • MichellefromNY says:

      I would actually wear that necklace. It’s not the ornaments that make her look ridiculous, it’s the WAY she’s wearing them. You don’t wear choker-like baubles with a buttoned-up menswear look. She looks ridiculous. That’s what I realized about luann. She has nice jewelry, but she doesn’t use them to complement her outfit. She just kind of throws them on hoping they will work when they just clash with the outfit and make her look ridiculous.

    • sony4ou says:

      Absolutely hilarious!!

  14. Kats2 says:

    Assuming where Luann was making the phone calls was her new NYC Apartment. . . looked like a dump compared to what she had before.

  15. boston02127 says:

    We haven’t yet seen a wide shot at Luman’s new apt. Wonder why?

  16. MichellefromNY says:

    omg Luann mind your own beeswax!!

    • Caitlin says:

      So annoying that it’s almost painful to watch! Reminds me of the worst of the “mean girls” from junior high!

  17. LynnNChicago says:

    I wish I had known it was so easy…Jill just asked Bobby if she could go to Morocco.

    Hey Bobby? Can Jill go to Siberia and never return? please?

  18. VAgirl says:

    ramona still trying to get it right w/jill. she hasn’t quite realized she’s being set up.

  19. error404 says:

    the sleep at night pot-shot was a low blow, which is why Bravo of course replays it non stop! lol

  20. cabbie413 says:

    ok it cant be that big of a secret – she tells it while the other girls are in the cab ..oh yea, and in front of the cameras lol

    i think this whole secret is just a way to make us watch this sh*t show.

  21. boston02127 says:

    Jill’s little chubby fingers are working away: She’s tweeting.

    I also brought a beautiful carved wood box to the ladies they cut out! The koala hugs the stem of wine glass. Perfect for Ramona!

    What did I do that hurt Ramona to her face. She publicly attacked me. Big difference, you admit u put your foot in mouth and that’s ok?

    We obviously hadn’t resolved our differences and refused to meet with me before trip. Why? You say I never would meet with u…Luann begged u to meet me

  22. HD says:

    Goodness Sonia looks like Glenn Close.

    • SueBHoney says:

      I said that in a previous posting a while ago and someone unnecessarily bit my head off for it.

      Glad someone else sees that she looks like Glenn Close! Thought I was the only one! 🙂

  23. HD says:

    Don’t we all dress like that when we cook in a toaster oven?

    • boston02127 says:

      I’m usually in front of my toaster in the morning with my hair sticking up, yawning and scratching my butt. But that’s just me.

  24. error404 says:

    and in true HW fashion, Kelly lends her support via constant criticism and non stop put downs.

    • MichellefromNY says:

      Kelly is one of the biggest snobs ever. Possibly even worse than lumann the ice queen

    • HD says:

      I hate to say it but that was one time I agreed with Kelly. What the heck was Sonia selling?

      • error404 says:

        she was married to one of the richest men in the world, yet cooked dinner in a toaster oven. wearing ball gown, making toast…. seriously, what’s NOT to get

    • Anne says:

      If someone was flashing you her vagina every two minutes would be a little weird. Sonja put some underwear on and act your age.

      Also, Sonja needs to act like she isn’t some hooker on 10th avenue selling herself for $10.

  25. Smompy says:

    I’ve wanted to physically assault each and every one of the HWs at one time or another, but I’ve never wanted to punch one of them in the face as badly as I want to deliver a roundhouse punch to LuAnn’s big square mug right now.

    Why the hell do they let her get away with her hypocritical bullshit?????????

    • Just Me says:

      Thank you! I needed to hear someone else say what I was thinking. If a punch couldn’t be buried deeply in LuMan’s face, I would have settled for a glass of wine being thrown at her smug mug. God, how does anyone tolerate her??

      • Rabble Rouser says:

        Honestly, I think I imagined a glass of water being thrown in her face at lunch with Ramona.

    • teetee says:

      To make her look bad.

  26. error404 says:

    4 witches in coven! Oh, I mean 4 women in a taxi.

  27. Okie Folkie says:

    GOOD GAWD Kelly STFFFU about your FFFFFin’ ‘Midwest’.
    You like it there so much, GO BAAAAACK!

    I believe NYC will be fine n dandy w/o YOU!

  28. cabbie413 says:

    what does seeing a vagina have to do with a bodyshaper???

    Jill die! Die!

  29. PatnPhilly says:

    Jill is going crazy on twitter, I can’t stand her she’s being so mean

  30. NVU says:

    hating Luann..wtf?

  31. boston02127 says:

    Remember last yr on the yacht, Kelly didn’t want to be with the gossip girls. Now she’s the worse one.

    • MichellefromNY says:

      So true! but she’s always been a pretty bad gossip and backstabbing mean girl. She was just better at hiding it under the veneer of rainbows and unicorns

  32. HD says:

    How long has Kelly been divorced?

  33. NVU says:

    oh..also hating kelly

  34. boston02127 says:

    Kelly’s got a new charity! Another charity that will last 2 months.

    • MickeyMouth says:

      Did she say Giles hit her?

      • WindyCityWondering says:

        I don’t know who hit her! WTF

      • sue says:

        Yep, she said her Husband slapped her, and shes only been married once. I hope her x-husband cracks her for lying, and I hope Bravo and Andy stop her from being able to make-up anything she wants. Kelly should be held accountable for her lies and stories!!!

        • teetee says:

          I agree. I am not sure that she didn’t start it. If someone laid there hands on her first, she probably provoked it.
          There have been plenty of times I wanted to reach out on touch Kelly’s neck for her oh so witty remarks.
          Just sayin.

  35. cabbie413 says:

    damn…i just missed it..what did she say? oh please..

  36. Lavalady says:

    Kelly needs a “Jason” Good luck with that.

  37. MichellefromNY says:

    Kelly was abused? by who? Gilles?? Is that a slap in the face to him?

    • kotagirl29 says:

      I believe she just said she was slapped by her husband. I’m gonna have to call bulls**t here. She was the one who was arrested for assault!!! I don’t care if you are a man or a woman, you have no right to lay your hands on someone else. I think if she did get slapped she probably slapped first. I know women who thinks its okay to attack men and then call the cops when the man pushes them down. I’m with Judge Judy on this one, you’re an idiot if you hit someone bigger than you and then get hurt when they hit you back. Women hitting men is just as wrong as men hitting women.

      • Anne says:

        She said she was assaulted by Giles and not the ex-bf. Very possible she was assaulted by Giles, plus he is great friends with Dominique Strauss-Kahn.

        • kotagirl29 says:

          It doesn’t matter who she claims to have been slapped by. I call bulls**t! She was the one who was arrested for assault. My opinion is that she is one of those types of women who thinks it is okay to hit a man and then expects not to be hit back. It is not okay for anyone to hit anyone else. If she slaps a guy she deserves to get slapped back.
          And before you get up in arms. I was in an extremely abusive relationship for seven years. I have the and the scars to prove it. But if a woman slaps a man he has a right to defend himself, just like a man punched by a man does, a woman hit by a woman, or a woman hit by a man does. I think that her erratic and illogical behavior on last years trip, combined with the fact that she was the one convicted of assault, points to her being slapped/pushed/restrained by a man defending himself against her attack. But that’s giving her the benefit that it actually happened and I’m not sure that I believe it did. You will recall that this is a woman who claims she was attacked and bullied last season and who has said she was threatened by Ramona through a text message. Kookoo isn’t exactly credible.

          • teetee says:

            I hate when violent women become violent and expect not to hit back in return. It’s a double standard and it’s not right.

      • sue says:

        Agreed, I’m sure that fit she threw on “Scary Island”wasnt the first. Giles probably had to slap her to bring her back to reality because she was acting up in front of the kids!!!!…Just steams me, because Bravo lets Kelly and Jill get away with everything!

  38. Kats2 says:

    Oh no my cable just went out!!! Someone has to tell me the big Kelly secret

  39. HD says:

    Okay…I am certainly not insensitive, I was a woman that was abused I have shared that, I am not saying Kelly was not “abused”. She said a man slapped her. No it is not right. No hitting ever is. Hopefully she left the guy right after that. But was that really the secret?

  40. Lavalady says:

    Oh no Kelly, run. Tote bags.

  41. boston02127 says:

    Oh God a gift tote bag. Look out Kelly….

  42. NMhousewife says:

    I’m confused….what is kelly’s big secret? She was slapped? Is she implying Gilles or the boyfriend she beat up?

  43. delighted says:

    sweet Jesus, what was that all about? LuAnn and Kelly?

  44. MickeyMouth says:

    If I was on this trip, I would have been drunk in the car and kept a steady blood alcohol level the entire weekend.

  45. cusi77 says:

    What was Kki’s secret? Gilles beated her? or what? I did not understand, help!

  46. AddictedtoBravo says:

    it’s hard to believe anything kelly says. I’m not saying it’s ok for anyone to hit another person but I would like to hear the guy’s.side of the story. She’s do distorted for all we know he was giving her the heimlich or something…

    • NMhousewife says:

      That’s what I am thinking. Something totally different happened, and she distorted it in her head. Or maybe that boyfriend after being punched and bloodied was defending himself with swinging arms..I know I should have more sympathy because it is a serious thing, but Kelly I just don’t believe her.

      • NMhousewife says:

        …and if this is supposed to make me feel any differently about Kelly especially about last year’s behavior, it absolutely does not excuse it in any way.

        • cusi77 says:

          One thing is true: she should not go anywhere with anyone for 7 days. She is unstable and she thinks that Ramona is in this trip in the other was Bethenny and she was in danger and had nightmares that B wanted to kill her… now is Ramona. There were always be someone trying to hurt her (according to all the voices in her head)

        • sue says:

          Thats exactly what she wants. She thinks that because people related to Bethenny about her “bad childhood” that this simp Kelly is making this up because one of their stupid PR people probably told her that women against domestic violence groups would feel pity for her so when she launches her book maybe someone will buy it. I mean look, she claims she cares sooo much about protecting her girls, but yet she gets on camera and says something like that about their father!!!

  47. Okie Folkie says:


    WHERE IS KOO-KOO’S ‘FAIRY GODMOTHER’?, ya’know, “the magical fairy that WILL come w/MAGICAL “DUST” to ssaaaaavvvvvveeeee meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?????”

  48. Alexa Rose says:

    Only a true royal knows not to open gifts in a hotel lobby… … … honestly where does this self righteous bitch come up with this? It didn’t bother me too much because it was a dig at Jill, but honestly

  49. cabbie413 says:

    I hope the other ladies get some screen time … these 4 are duds! these whack chicks need to GET OFF THE STAGE!

  50. Kats2 says:

    Kelly is a LIAR, she is looking for sympathy don’t fall for it.

  51. delighted says:

    I’m thinking she’s in Kellyland and doesn’t understand what being abuse is..and I say that reluctantly because I have deep empathy for women in abusive relationships. I’m just thinking that she’s doing the same mind game that she did with the bullying charge after last season..and I barf..

    • Anne says:

      Perfectly rude. If you think Kelly is unstable it is entirely possible it stemmed from abuse. It is very shameful to be very vindictive of her simply based on a TV show.

      Gail King thinks that Kelly is genuine…hmmmmm!

  52. boston02127 says:

    Are they in Morocco?
    Kelly has an obsession with smells. Bwhahahaha, I wonder why.

  53. MichellefromNY says:

    These women are so rude. And this drum thing is booooring

  54. HD says:

    There are women in the world right now living in complete fear of their spouse, they can barely breathe walking around on eggshells all day, wondering when the next blow will come. I pray Kelly is not trying to put herself in that category of women. I am not saying it is right to be slapped at all and I am not really sure how to say it but I hope ya’ll get what I am saying.

    • error404 says:

      I get it. Crime is never right. But shoplifting a candy bar once is not the same as cheating seniors out of their entire savings.

      But we all know Kelly was “bullied” on Scary Island, so she has the added “boy who cried wolf” aspect. Plus HE had HER arrested, not the other way around. I guess that was part of the abuse. It’s all so sad.

    • Kukulet says:

      I get what you are saying.

      I’m not buying what Kelly is selling here. She mumbled a vague hint that someone “slapped” her. Don’t get me wrong-I don’t support abuse of any kind, but I do have to wonder if Kelly’s version of “abuse” is like her version of “bullying”.

      • HD says:

        Exactly, Error in regards to the stealing thing. Exactly!

        Thanks for getting what I was trying to say Error and Kukulet.

    • Anne says:

      Are you kidding me? You a devoid of sympathy just because you do not like someone on a TV show, that you don’t know and have never met. One should at least have some empathy and say I hope it isn’t true and if it is I am sorry for what she lived through. Any other comment is just sad…very sad.

      • Rabble Rouser says:

        No one said ‘abuse’ should be tolerated- but Kelly didn’t claim to be abused, she said she was ‘slapped’- in what seemed like a very staged revelation. It reeked of exploitation.

        She is also the one who was arrested for assault in a domestic environment. She is in effect a mutual combatant if she is telling the truth.

      • quincyil says:

        Lynn’s rule is to discuss the opinion. Just a reminder.


  55. error404 says:

    Kelly’s trashing of Sonja’s photo shoot styling would have been more creditable had she not been wearing a 12 year old’s catholic school uniform at the time.

    • delighted says:

      she’s rocking the Lauren Look..but not quite?

    • lillybee says:

      I can’t wait. That sounds funny.

    • AddictedtoBravo says:

      And she keeps saying Sonja is selling toast er ovens when it’s really a cookbook.

    • Kukulet says:

      It also would have been more creditable if Kelly hadn’t put her own vajayjay on display on the red carpet a while back. Not to mention her comments about Sonja’s “looseness” with her body parts at the masquerade cocktail party-coming from a woman who posed nude for Playboy.

      She’s such a whackjob.

  56. MichellefromNY says:

    Jill I thought you loved cindy, but now you’re being a bitch to her?

  57. HD says:

    The thing with Ramona she wants to act like she has the best skin care line and blah blah blah but she goes to get all these treatments and whatnot.

    • cabbie413 says:

      she’s just like Suzanne Somers – she gets lipo and skin peels and acts like its the thigh master and all of her vitamins regimen — she looks horrible now btw, but she thinks she looks hot.

  58. Nancy says:

    I would slap Kelly too if I was married to her.

  59. Kats2 says:

    Jill, Kelly and New Girl Horse face are not funny at all

  60. HD says:

    Damn Luann! Every other word out of her mouth is Ramona. She is always starting stuff!

  61. Kats2 says:

    The way Kelly acts is because she’s crazy, has nothing to do with her past or any made up story.

  62. boston02127 says:

    Luann is like a mosquito in your bedroom when you’re trying to sleep.

  63. Nancy says:

    Did you see LuMan’s shark-tooth necklace?

  64. ramonacoaster says:

    What a crock of you know what! Kelly had to remove herself? What a joke!

  65. PatnPhilly says:

    Ok Kelly now waits to tell her secret to a million people? I hope Kelly doesn’t come I can’t stand this chick!

    • Okie Folkie says:

      And, rumor has it, those numbers “1 Million” are falling off…. rapidly,
      ‘K this time I GOTTA GO! 😉

  66. Lavalady says:

    OMG, Kelly, so just don’t go. Who cares.

  67. Okie Folkie says:

    This IS sorta hard for me to watch and post at same time, so I’ll c-‘yall L8R.
    have fun, and have somma my fun, to!! 😉


  68. delighted says:

    I’m calling BS on Kelly’s story..PLEEZE..too sensitive? I’m on the floor.

  69. boston02127 says:

    News Alert: For once Jill Zarin has told the truth, her tweet:

    Oye no makeup..I am ugly!

  70. delighted says:

    but I’ve also had two glasses of wine..

  71. MickeyMouth says:

    Kelly transfered her Bethenny obsession to Ramona.

    • VAgirl says:

      Yes and isn’t it very odd she’s not even mentioning Alex, who she said bullied her along with Bethenny. Why Ramona and not Alex?

      • MichellefromNY says:

        Because Alex bowed to her will and allowed her to be right and have the last say. Besides, she’s using alex as “proof” that she redeemed herself so all the crap she pulls this season she can’t be blamed for

        • teetee says:

          Jill is pissed at Ramona so her minions KuKu and Lunny are following. There is no B to take it, horse teeth is new and Jill wants to get close to her for whoever she “might” know (society).

  72. AddictedtoBravo says:

    We aren’t even close to the truth about Kelly. she doesn’t even know the truth about herself. it’s easier to blame ramona.

  73. Smompy says:

    LOL It doesn’t seen possible, but I’m honestly hating these bishes more and more as the episode progresses. I wish to God Ramona really WOULD go crazy and put the smackdown on all the “brunettes.” They are all horrible, horrible human beings.

    • Kukulet says:

      They really are. My God, do they ever talk about anything else that doesn’t involve slamming other women behind their backs?

  74. error404 says:

    She wrote it about herself!

  75. MickeyMouth says:

    Jill said “I didn’t write that”, cause you know they all thought she did, hahahaha

    • ramonacoaster says:

      Even Jill knows she and everyone in that room is not loyal. Only to themselves, of course.

      • MickeyMouth says:

        I love that she clarified that. Considering this blog talks about how she write’s good stuff about herself, lol. She felt the need to make sure everyone knew she didn’t write that she was loyal about herself, lol. That was classic!

  76. Kats2 says:

    They are so boring, not funny at all. Doesn’t Andy have that monitor thing that measures stuff by scene? He is so going to replace all of them!!! Do it Do it Do it

  77. Adgirl says:

    Didn’t Kelly model professionally? I can’t believe she never saw another model nude while changing for a photo shoot. Did she shriek Look! Vagina! Agggh!?

    • MichellefromNY says:

      I was thinking the same thing! My husband works in a company where there are lots of models coming in for photoshoots and he says that sometimes he sees them half naked because they’re constantly changing and there are no changing rooms

  78. error404 says:

    btw Jill, I know you’re reading here, and I AM drinking Ramona Pinot as I watch this!

  79. error404 says:

    OMG how does Andy know I’m drinking pinot? Nanny Cam!

  80. HD says:

    Who donated a CD?

  81. Lavalady says:

    Ally looks very pretty

  82. AddictedtoBravo says:

    I can’t decide who is worse right now. Cindy with her 14 yr old eye rolling, Jill with her fake tears and victimhood or Luann with her self righteous I know how to behave and you don’t statements. The level of hypocrisy here is UNBELIEVEABLE.

  83. error404 says:

    Wow, the P word passed Ramoners lips.

  84. HD says:

    I love Luann’s dress.

  85. Linda says:

    Don’t believe Kelly…she lies and is crazy. She was agressive with Max in the bar her first season on show. No men want her because she acts so weird and childish. So tired of her ignorant comments.
    Hope these looser women do get replaced, especially Kokokelly, ugly Jill, Luman, Cindy, and even Sonya is getting old quick this season.

    • Anne says:

      No man would want Kelly. Don’t delude yourself. She is a very attractive woman and many men would want her. Let me rephrase, many wealthy, successful, stable and attractive men in NYC would want her. There are lines of guys after her in the Hamptons.

      • DarkSonnet says:

        Hey Jill, how’s it going? Evidently not too well after watching the show tonight and reading the tweets.

        We aren’t buying what you are attempting to sell on the show this year. Nope, nada…..

        The RHONY has been decimated by this useless, vicious, un-redeemable cast.

        I am excluding the “blonds” from this indictment. They don’t seem to have the penchant for lack of veracity concerning events and other people.

        I think we have figured out why the show was delayed. It is a dog.

      • Jojoba says:

        Really? Are these men invisible or just make believe in the wonderful world of kellybean?

      • nathania says:

        then she wouldn’t be single.

        my feeling is

        they are either going to already have their own kids
        or they are going to want kids

        and look at how fast her looneyness came out on the speed dating thing

        “I’m an actor.”
        “oh really, what instrument do you play?”

        I mean, no man is going to want that around his kids, even on weekends only. And he sure as hell isn’t going to reproduce with her. And no man who doesn’t want children will have her, because she IS one.

      • Lurker Also says:

        Yup. “Anne” is def. JILL or KELLY. Busted.

      • Rabble Rouser says:

        And yet she is on tv crying about how lonely she is…oh the irony.

  86. HD says:

    No sooner had I said I loved her dress Luann goes and acts like a witch! DAMN!

  87. MichellefromNY says:

    WOW. Luann you have NOOOOOO manners to bring that up. WOW

  88. Lavalady says:

    LouAnn SHUT UP

  89. delighted says:

    As my dearheart would say “F me dead”.. is Luann for real?

  90. HD says:

    Why the eff is it Luann’s responsibility?! She is getting on my damn nerves!!!

  91. error404 says:

    Woop there it is!

  92. AddictedtoBravo says:

    LOL LOVE Luann is the thug!!!

  93. MichellefromNY says:

    Luann is the THUG IN A COCKTAIL DRESS!!!!!!

  94. cabbie413 says:


  95. MickeyMouth says:

    Why were you surprised Alex -The Thug in a Cocktail Dress Scolds Everyone!

  96. Adgirl says:

    Kelly: I’m so proud to be in Playboy magazine!
    Kelly: I’m so disgusted Sonja accidentally flashed me with her v-a-g-i-n-a!

    Kelly: Every man I date literally slaps my face.
    Kelly: Was that me that was arrested for assault when I punched my boyfriend? Shhh!

  97. VAgirl says:

    LUANN IS THE THUG IN A COCKTAIL DRESS. I knew it had not been said yet! YES!

  98. cusi77 says:

    I knew Luann was the thug in a coctail dress!

  99. Lavalady says:

    The thug in a cocktail dress is LouAnn.

  100. ramonacoaster says:

    I love that Luann brought the designer bitchiness up. Luann is on the attack. Funny that Ramona isn’t going crazy like she does with Jill. Luann is totally irrelevant. The “Thug in a Cocktail dress” is Luann. Yay!

  101. HD says:


  102. ramonacoaster says:

    Because Jill is fake, Luann! How come it’s taking you so long to figure out?

  103. MichellefromNY says:

    Why is Luann upset that ramona said that only she can wear meister? who cares? why make a big deal?

    • klmh says:

      Why would Ramona demand that of her designer? The designer was a fool if he disallowed the other housewives from wearing his designs. jmo

  104. HD says:

    I can’t take this bullshyt anymore!! I literally want to slap Luann! Kelly made all that fuss and now she is going! Back to Luann who is such a damn witch! I can’t take it!

  105. MichellefromNY says:


  106. Kukulet says:

    Would someone please please please tape all their mouths shut? These four are disgusting.

  107. MichellefromNY says:

    I’m confused. Why make a big deal about ramona drinking pinot when they were serving cocktails at the event?

    • HD says:

      HELLO! I thought the same thing.

      • Rabble Rouser says:

        It’s so stupid, the scene before almost everyone had a drink in their hand- then the next scene Ramona is getting blasted for it.

        • teetee says:

          It’s Jill!!
          Jill is jealous of anyone that may have a little success! She really think that all of the women are beneath her! Ramona has her wine now and Jill is so jealous, she is now trying to call her an alcoholic!

    • error404 says:

      Because they are one step away from saying Ramoner is blonde because she’s Satin’s daughter. LOL They are literally grasping straws in an effort to turn everything from the sky being blue to the grass being green being all evil Ramoner’s fault. Logic and reason need not ally.

    • Anne says:

      Because Ramona was drinking like a lush. There is a difference in having a drink or two with lunch and another to keep on drinking like an alcoholic.

      Plus so says someone is deformed. That was a totally disgusting statment.

  108. lillybee says:

    Holy crap, a Fox News shrink thinks that Maria Schriver should stand by her man. She shouldn’t have left him and infidelity is not an excuse to end a marriage.

    • cabbie413 says:

      FOX NEWS should be STRIPPED of the “news” portion in the title

      fox is a right wing propaganda machine..

      who wants to stand by the man who was smooshing the maid (who was your friend) in your own bed..FOR YEARS…and had a secret love child under yournose. that psychiatrist is psycho

    • VAgirl says:

      I’m gonna have to go back and read that because I don’t remember him exactly saying that.

  109. error404 says:

    Poor Kelly. She’s too broke to afford her own ticket. THE only chance she has to see Morocco is if she goes with LuAnn, who of course is paying for all the tickets. Bawhahaha
    Seriously, you gotta be pretty stupid to think viewers would buy this crap.

    • delighted says:

      Totally agree..I’m kind of hanging my head that I’ve even watching this s***.

      • delighted says:

        forgive the typos..I’m on the third glass of wine..it’s called therapy.

        • Rabble Rouser says:

          I’m with you sister. Maybe we can get a room next to Ramona and Danielle in rehab . These women could drive anyone to drink.

  110. Maryla says:

    It sorta seems like the brunettes are practiced at bullying. Look how they are behaving at the anti-bullying event! Sitting around smirking and commenting about what Ramona is drinking. Who cares? At a charity event? Honestly. Jimmy Buffet always says that it is 5 o’clock somewhere.

    • cusi77 says:

      Maryla_ You nail it to the wall! The bullies bulling during the anti-bullying! Wow!

  111. boston02127 says:

    I can’t blame Ramona for drinking. I don’t even drink but if I had to hang around with that pack of wolves I’d pick it up quick and become a raging alcoholic.

  112. ramonacoaster says:

    Kelly is blaming Ramona for Scary Island? Unbelievable!

    • Maryla says:

      Kelly is delusional. She has made her own reality. What is so weird is that she is really sticking to that version of events (despite solid evidence to the contrary). And surprisingly, even after those episode aired, which clearly showed her diving (head first) off the cliff of sanity, the other brunette beotches are lining up behind her skewed version of scary island.

      On a side note, it does seem like a dangerous game for Bravo to have let her go off to another foreign country with this group—who seem to bring out the worst in her (Kelly).

      On a good note, she handled the gift bags much better this time. Maybe there’s hope.

  113. AddictedtoBravo says:

    I would really like to know what kelly thinks ramona did to her on scary island.

    • cabbie413 says:

      i’d really like RAMONA to SPILL at the reunion about what REALLY happened on Scary Island.

      Kelly is demented!!!

      • AddictedtoBravo says:


      • Kukulet says:

        I don’t want her to spill it at the reunion, because Jill will just talk over her and I want to hear what she has to say.

        Blog it, Ramona…blog it all.

      • Caitlin says:

        Bethenny has got to make a guest appearance and tell all!!!!

        • T-REX says:

          I think Bethenny is smart enough to stay away from this train wreck of a season! Bravo are you finally listening, we all hate this season, half of us are not even watching, we are reading this blog to find out what is going on just to show you how much we hate this season!

  114. boston02127 says:

    @error—When you get a minute watch that video that I posted above.

  115. Kukulet says:

    Jill says “I’m concerned about Ramona”? Shut up, Jill-you couldn’t care less about Ramona.

    • Maryla says:

      Why is product placement OK for some (Jill) but not OK for others (Ramona)? When Kelly said she got slapped and Jill announced from the back seat that maybe Kelly needed skweezwear—nobody chimed in that Jill needed to go to overeaters anonymous. Ramona’s BRAVO product placement is Pinot. She’s getting it in as many segments as she possibly can.

      I suppose if I had a role on this show (Lord help me and my entire family if that were to ever happen), I’d be hawking my wares whenever possible.

      • error404 says:

        I actually *gasp* am going to give Jill this one. It takes balls to show up to someone else’s sales pitch and start pushing your own product. Ramoner has brass balls and I kinda love her for it, but mostly because I hate Jill.

        • Rabble Rouser says:

          They were pitching shit left and right.
          Did anyone else notice a copy of Class with the Countess while LuLu was on the phone…not to mention what a old, dirty ass phone it was…seriously did Alexander Bell use that to make the first phone call ever?

          • error404 says:

            missed the book, but did notice the 1986 phone last used as a prop in ‘Back to the Future’

          • HD says:

            I noticed the book.

            Also the O magazine that Gail held on WWHL.

            Bethanny does it all the time.

            Ramona does it all the time.

            Jill carrying that Bath and Body bag or whatever the place is she sells her crappy shits I mean sheets.

  116. boston02127 says:

    Can not wait for Luann to fall-on-her-ass. (in life not from a camel)

  117. Lavalady says:

    Oh so here’s the stepdaughter.

  118. neroes says:

    Kelly just tweeted it’s very difficult to film with @mccordalex and @ramonasinger. They are never real and always awkward. good job @countessluann

    • cusi77 says:

      I just can’t imagine what evil head sent these women to Morocco just for the sake ratings!

    • nathania says:

      yeah, I totally get it.

      after the spa thing it’s very, very clear that they are pulling jill tricks all damn season. the browns got together and decided that ‘we don’t film with no stenking blondes’ and tried to dictate the season that way. icing them out unless they were ganged up on. NOW I know why Sonja was acting so weird. Sonja wants to be Sonja, she want it so be a big group and not have to take sides. She is trying to ride the fence somehow.

      I did an about face on her talk with Cindy now in defense of Ramona. I have to hand it to Sonja, that was awesome.

      the morocco trip was probably the only way that they were going to get the two camps to film together.

  119. MichellefromNY says:

    Who thinks its incredibly ironic that jill is hosting the anti bullying event when she’s one of the biggest bullys???

  120. HD says:

    Ramona, Ramona, Ramona…..really?

  121. Kats2 says:

    What was that other man stuff about in the preview?

  122. error404 says:

    Um… is Morocco going somewhere? Trip of a lifetime? It’s just another country.


  123. boston02127 says:

    Jill’s tweet:
    SeriousRT @jenelle829 RT @Jillzarin At the end of event Ramona corked all the half used open bottles and took them home.Everyone was dying laughing.you’re KIDDING

  124. error404 says:

    Gayle. It was all staged and Jill and Cindy already knew what Kelly was going to say.

  125. MichellefromNY says:

    Wait I think I heard kelly in the previews for morocco saying “I know french, I dont want peope to know?” wtf??

    • Lavalady says:

      I think she understood the fortune telling but didn’t want to let on.

    • error404 says:

      Stupid. The fortune teller tells Sonja in French “There’s another woman” and Kelly doesn’t want to translate because she’s Authentic, Charitable, from the midwest and basically an 11 year old girl who’s never seen another woman’s vajayjay.

      • nathania says:

        I don’t know mother protocol so if it’s off limits to ask this forgive me but

        Kelly has two daughters. Didn’t she bathe them? Didn’t she change their diapers?

        And what message is she giving them when she says of another woman’s vagina that it was ‘disgusting’?

        She is one of the most bizarre normal looking people ever.

        • HD says:

          Kelly didn’t want to translate because she did not want to tell Ramona that the woman said, “there’s another woman.” Which honestly I can understand. I believe if I heard correctly, Luann didn’t mind translating loud and clear.

  126. Lavalady says:

    Gayle says the housewives are too petty.

  127. cusi77 says:

    Jill call your lawyers! Your team will lose!

  128. boston02127 says:

    NY has gotten so sickening. If it wasn’t for Gayle being on WWHL, I wouldn’t be watching.

  129. Why do I watch this crap?! says:

    Ramona just tweeted that Jill was an alcoholic. Hmmmm Interesting. That could explain the coca cola.

    • Adgirl says:

      OMG I am dying. That is pretty interesting.

      • Why do I watch this crap?! says:

        She also tweeted that she’ll post proof of Jill’s lies tomorrow on Facebook. Seems Ramona is a little pissed with how they’re coming after her.

    • error404 says:

      Oh no she didn’t!!!!!

      Called it! I said it here like a year ago! LOL

      • Why do I watch this crap?! says:

        Ramona’ s tweet

        I have no problem but u were the alcoholic”@Jillzarin: I was worried @kellybensimon couldn’t defend herself against Ramona when she drinks.”

        • Lavalady says:

          Here’s the thing, Jill. Worry about yourself. Kelly is an adult; she doesn’t need your help.

        • nathania says:

          I think it needs to be said that Ramona is a class act.

          She’s had plenty of opportunity to spill this about Jill and she kept the secret until it became clear she was being smeared thusly. That shows alot of integrity and at this point I do not blame her at all, it’s a case of ‘what’s good for the goose is what’s good for the gander’.

      • Rabble Rouser says:


        Ramona must be PIST

      • Debbie says:

        I’ve said it before too. I believe Jill is what is referred to as a “dry drunk”. A recovering alcoholic that isn’t fully accepting of the fact.

    • cusi77 says:

      My father used to say to not trust people who does not drink.lol. haaa!

      • HD says:

        Cusi that is too funny! LOL!

        I am tripping! Error, I remember you calling that a long time ago! Who is friends with Ramona on Facebook?! Go see what is going on! Please!

    • cabbie413 says:

      that explains someons’s DRY DRUNK theory


      I forgot the username but they talked about it in past blog posts

    • California35 says:

      Wooo really?? Wow she calls other alchoolics…but she is the one???! No!

  130. MichellefromNY says:

    I think I understand why ramona would say that (which was clearly an off camera remark). She wants to be distinctive from other housewives and doesn’t want lumanns one shouldered wonders to ruin her look. But Lumann should know that you don’t bring up remarks unless you want to seem catty and bitchy–which equals an unclassy person lacking manners

    • cusi77 says:

      I agree Michelle! LuAnn lacks of good manners in my book! She is rude, you know who is the best mannered? Alex. She is a Classy lady.

    • Adgirl says:

      Personally, I don’t think there is anything wrong with trying to keep your signature designer separate from the other cast mates – just for on camrea stuff right?.
      I also didn’t care that Teresa NJ didn’t want her sister in law involved in her special thang.

      • FLG says:

        Hey if Ramona and a designer come to an exclusive arrangement, so be it. Very UN-CLASSY of the Countess to make a big deal about it. LuAnn is just miffed because Ramona beat her to the punch. LuAnn hasn’t had an original idea in her life. The best she can hope for is to copy cat someone else.

        • Debbie says:

          Jillzarin Jill Zarin
          I never heard of David meistter? I think jc penny exclusive line there? Confused. She did same thing to me. Mean right?

          Jill seems to be implying that Meister’s line is carried at JCPennny’s. Another attempt to mock Ramona.

          • Cheri says:

            I like penney’s

            • Rabble Rouser says:

              Jill clearly doesn’t get it which is one of the many reasons she is a colossal failure in the shilling department.

              Most of the housewife’s don’t even actually have the money they try to project they have; most people in today’s economy also don’t have a lot of disposable cash either. One of the reason why Bethanny’s product (and probably Ramona’s wine) did well is because it is a product that people would buy anyway- at a reasonable price point.

              No one is going to buy ugly bed sheets that cost over $100 just because it has Jill’s name on it.

              Ramona getting hooked up with a designer who’s line is affordable to the everyday woman is genius. Remember when the first lady wore a dress from H&M? They sold like hotcakes.

              Jill, if you are reading this- and we both know that you are….you really need to humble yourself. Remember, your demographic appeal seems limited to 16 year old Australian girls- stick to shill your Kola bear clips and maybe you will make a buck or two.

            • teetee says:

              Me too!! Love them

          • Rabble Rouser says:

            Did what to her? Jill just clutch on to your 16k gratis purse and STFU.

  131. ramonacoaster says:

    Maybe the producers sent the housewives to Morocco hoping they would be kidnapped and sold into white slavery like Patsy sold Edena’s daughter Saffie in AbFab when they went to Morocco. hysterical episode. Patsy turned into a man on a trip to Morocco until her penis implant fell off.

  132. Adgirl says:

    Wow. I have apretty good idea why LuAnn is Countless now. How did Alex put up with her so long?

    • Kukulet says:

      He didn’t. He traveled. A LOT.

    • cabbie413 says:

      he practically LIVED in another country ..that’s how.

      I dont know why Luann acted like raising kids was so hard. She had nannies and maids..even now as teens she has a “mother’s helper” (read – STAND IN MOM) while she whores around with Jacques.

      She’s as big of a bitch as Jill is.

      • nathania says:

        okay, so it seems the super rich guys find a relatively sane woman with whom to reproduce.

        they still hound-dog around, but the sane one is the baby machine. i guess lou ann, being working class and a nurse, and homely enough to be grateful for the marriage, fit the bill.

  133. lillybee says:

    Kelly, since Morocco was once a Spanish colony, guess what more speak Spanish than French there.

    • klmh says:

      I had to look this up because I had no idea, but:
      Officially Morocco is a bilingual country, but the linguistic reality is rather complicated. The official languages are Arabic and French, but Arabic is what “the man in the street” speaks and French is taught in school, so the latter is more common in government and business and among upper-class Moroccans.

    • Anne says:

      You have definitely never been to Morocco have you….that is laughable. Morocco declared its independence from both France and Spain the in same year in 1956. However, you will find more people speaking French than Spanish of the non-Darija or Berber speakers.

      • Jojoba says:

        Luanne? Is that you, dahling?

      • quincyil says:

        I have a good friend who goes there with Turkish family members and it’s a vacation Mecca for Europeans and people from the Middle East. I am thinking about meeting Iranian family members there. I hear it is a great place to visit.

  134. Kukulet says:

    Ramona Tweeted: ramonasinger If you want to see proof of Jill’s lies check out my Facebook page tomorrow morning!

  135. error404 says:

    ramonasinger Ramona Singer
    I have no problem but u were the alcoholic”@Jillzarin: I was worried @kellybensimon couldn’t defend herself against Ramona when she drinks.”
    12 minutes ago

    • Jojoba says:

      Kelly couldn’t defend herself from her own reflection in the mirror either.

      • jillz68 says:

        Why did I just picture Kelly bobbing and weaving from her reflection in the mirror?

        Count me in as one who didn’t feel too badly she was slapped (if indeed she was). I don’t condone abuse but maybe, just maybe the slapper was the boyfriend she clobbered and it was in self defense. Coulda happened that way…

  136. Adgirl says:

    If Jill is a recovering alcoholic then she obviously needs to attend some meetings. Has she never heard of not “taking people’s inventory”? She keeps a ledger (her notes!) all of the time!

    • Nancy says:

      Jill would die of old age before she completed her 4th step.

      • Adgirl says:

        I’m so glad Ramona outed her. My ex went through the program and I learned alot. I don’t think Jill understands how her negativity make her a sick person.
        Ramona may have a drinking problem, but that’s between her and her family.

        • nathania says:


          please, please, please do not let this be the reason Jill doesn’t drink…

          did I miss something?

          cause she is crayyyyyyyyzeeeeeeeeeeeee

      • error404 says:

        Please, like Jill would ever accept what she can not change! Total control freak!!!!!

    • Anne says:

      Some jews and muslims do not like AA because the foundation is Christian and the 12 step program is very early Christian ritualistic.

    • FLG says:

      Dry Drunk,Dry Drunk,Dry Drunk!!!!!!

  137. boston02127 says:

    What ever they are all hating on Ramona for is going right over my head. Ramona seems like the only normal one.

  138. codystl says:

    LuAnn is a busybody and is really getting on my nerves and the previews indicate that she’s being a mother hen to everyone.

    I have a question for people here. I volunteer, chair and work with several different charities. I usually word it that “I’m supporting breast cancer research” or some thing like that. I never call them “my” charities. Does this bug anyone else that the RH’s use “my”?

    • cusi77 says:


      • Dani says:

        Yes, I worked for the City of Hope as a volunteer for 15 years, and never once would I have even thought of referring to it as “my charity.”

    • L.A. Chica says:

      Oh, hell to the YES! This drives me crazy. Unless it’s a charity that they founded or run, it’s NOT “theirs.”

      That and referring to gay people as “our gays” or “the gays.” It’s so dehumanizing, they’re not cute pets they are people.

  139. Simon’s latest tweet:

    SimonvanKempen: Hey @JillZarin some1 tweeted me 2nites @BravoAndy’s #WWHL poll question. Whose robots will win tonight, Mine or Bobby’s! #IDon’tNeedRobots

  140. error404 says:

    people are too sensitive. I’m short. Gayle’s tall. If she don’t wanna date me, it’s cool yo.

  141. lillybee says:

    I think I am getting tired of the Bash Ramona season.

  142. boston02127 says:

    Jill’s so close & proud of her stepdaughter? In 4 years we never heard of Jennifer. Why hasn’t she hung out with her on the show before? Did she just bring her out because of her birth defect?

    Am I wrong in thinking this?

    • Kukulet says:

      No, you are not wrong. Maybe Jennifer didn’t want to be on television, but if Jill is so proud, you’d think she would have mentioned her.

      Jill will wheel out anyone she can to make herself look sympathetic. It’s all she’s got left.

      • kotagirl29 says:

        I didn’t know she had step-kids until she said she had a step-grandson! Whatever she can use to make herself look better is all she cares about!

    • error404 says:

      no. Jill uses people.

    • Nancy says:

      She prostitutes her dog, why shouldn’t she do the same thing to her “relatives”?
      I really have not hated anyone in my life like I do Jill.

    • WindyCityWondering says:

      No you are not wrong – Jill is using Jennifer to look good – and it isn’t working!

  143. Lavalady says:

    The blondes won!

    • error404 says:

      Yeah, just like last time Jill’s expensive bots only got her 40something %

    • MichellefromNY says:

      yeah, but not by much. Who on earth would have voted for brunettes after seeing luann and all the brunettes act like such bitches??? I think bravo fears litigation from jill so they always make it close so that they can keep jills minions and lawsuits away

  144. MichellefromNY says:

    K, I’ll be honest. I’m addicted to housewives and have been since the beginning. It’s one of the shows I consistently watch. But NYC housewives are KILLING me. I’m really hating all this petty drama being stirred up by the hateful brunettes. I really really cant anymore. It’s like nyc housewives has been wrung dry of all the fun. Same with OC. It’s just stupid petty drama that just makes me hate them all more. I’m so sick of these women. And I’m sick of hating them. I don’t have that much emotional energy to deal with all this disgust and hatred for these famewhores.

    • Adgirl says:

      I know! It’s like a bad habit you can’t stop, like biting your fingernails.
      “Why did I DO that?!”

    • cusi77 says:

      I feel exactly the same. It saddens me that my favorite show is going so low. I had never watched “Sex and The City” and I started watching a few weeks ago and that is the kind of friendship I would like to watch in RHONY… I do not see how they will repair this in this season.

      • codystl says:

        Could be why the rumor is out there that Bravo is shopping for new NYC housewives. Pretty hard to film if no one is getting along.

    • L.A. Chica says:

      The only reason I am still watching the RHONYC is because I keep waiting for these women to do something to redeem themselves. Many of us go through that arc in our lives to some degree, but this cast is really taking that arc to new highs — or lows, actually. What is it about the Real Housewives franchise that reduces grown women to behaving like fifth graders? And I’m afraid that’s insulting to actual fifth graders.

      They say hope springs eternal, but mine is waning. I’ll probably stick through the end of the season but if nothing changes for the better then I’m done with this show. You hear that, Jill? I am DONE.

      With New York, that is. I AM looking forward to watching season 2 of the Beverly Hills cast (God help me).

  145. Kats2 says:

    Alex just won me over with her BRAVO blog about the episode tonight. Class act.

  146. NMhousewife says:

    I love how Kelly tweeted in calling Gayle her friend giving her advice, and then Gayle corrected saying she MET her last summer in the Hamptons and just mentioned that she might want to watch how she comes across as it wasn’t looking too good for her.

    BUT….don’t think Gayle has seen enough of Kelly to actually consider her “real” or not a phony or whatever she said.

    • MichellefromNY says:

      Yeah kelly is normal for the first few seconds you meet her, but when you get to know her, the monster comes out!

    • Rabble Rouser says:

      I don’t think Gayle was actually saying that she thinks Kelly is ‘real or genuine’.

      Kelly is the one who keeps on saying that about herself, Gayle was basically telling Kelly she is not projecting herself in the manner she described herself.

  147. FLG says:

    Jill is soooo busted! She’d better take my advice and start taking those swimming lessons. The Titanic just sank another two decks!

  148. jeepers1941 says:

    Well believe it or not, I have read all the post on tonites show and I am still going to watch the show when it airs here on the west coast.
    If jz’ stap-daughter is disabled in some way, you can bet, jz had her on the show to let people know she is a very charitable person and is kind and loving to all. Sad state of affairs when you use family members to try and build up a fan base. Don’t get me wrong, maybe I will change my comments when I see the show, but I still HATE HER!
    She is the worst kind of human form God has ever put on this earth and she deserves to sleep with the fishes, the sooner the better!!

    • error404 says:

      she has a birth mark on her chin and her bullying “story” was that she didn’t even know until another child told her. The other girl said “I would be your friend is you didn’t have that”. I guess I’ve been bullied all my life and didn’t know it. When you compare this story to those whinny gay teens who are getting beat up within an inch of their lives, you can see how they are all a bunch of crybabies. Only a little girl who can’t be friends with every single snotty bitch in school knows what true bullying is!

      • Adgirl says:

        And she admitted she has a large tumor in her jaw … so what exactly was wrong with what Ramona said? Maybe Ramona could have been more delicate, but she was accurate.

        • susan says:

          Furthermore, hemangiomas can and are easily removed through surgery or laser treatments, especially in NYC the premier medical treatment place in the world. So what is with that?

          • quincyil says:

            I was going to say this also. Why does Bobby pay for liquid face lifts for her and did not offer some of the treatments for his daughter. I have a friend with a child who is now 24 who had laser work done when she was a baby and they went to Texas for it. Bobby was rich and in NYC.

            • nathania says:

              yeah what is up with that.

              did jill zarin put her foot down and say absolutely not, bawby, that is my JOOLERY money???

              I think someone should ask the stepmom about it.

        • Rabble Rouser says:

          I really didn’t see anything wrong with what Ramona said- the girl unfortunately does have a disfiguring birthmark on her face- Ramona said her confidences diminished that fact.

          You would think the way Jill pumped it up on twitter that Ramona tried to shill her facial creams at the girl.

        • Anne says:

          Are you kidding? Ramona needs to get a filter for her mouth. You do not go around saying another person is deformed regardless if that person says they have a hemangioma. That would be the same, if I met you and you said you didn’t like your nose and I said you were the ugliest person I ever met.

          There are certain things you never say. EVER. But, Ramona’s mother or father never taught her that. She lacks empathy.

          • L.A. Chica says:

            “That would be the same, if I met you and you said you didn’t like your nose and I said you were the ugliest person I ever met.”

            Oh gosh, I think that’s going a bit far. No, it’s more like if you met me and I said I didn’t like my nose, and then you said I do have a bump on my nose. That’s stating a fact, and is a VERY far cry from saying I’m the ugliest person you ever met.

          • Rabble Rouser says:

            “Deformed” came across a little abrupt sounding and she could have couched it a little differently but what she was really saying is that Jennifer’s confidence shined through.

            But no one here thinks that Romona can’t be abrupt or rude- but let’s be real…she ain’t no Jill Zarin.

          • glammedupthug says:

            Anne, you’ve done Jill’s shilling through the whole blog but after everybody’s gone to bed, so no one’s up to call you out. But you still have me to “out” you since my hours only allow me to enjoy this blog in the wee hours.
            Well, I have to finally speak up. Ramona never said anything that reflects a lack of empathy. She told Jill she was impressed with her step daughter’s speech. Ramona just said the girl had a disfigurement. She didn’t say the girl was ugly. Pipe downor let’s see you post when our bloggers are awake and can comment on your (I mean Jill’s) digs.

          • cabbie413 says:

            but the girl is by societal standards, deformed. Ramona was giving her a compliment and Jill just wanted to find something yet again to bitch about.

    • lillybee says:

      West coast here, too. I will keep you company.

  149. error404 says:

    Jillzarin Jill Zarin
    What is the difference between Bullying and sticking up for yourself? Everyone has different definition.
    35 minutes ago

    Um….. defending yourself without bashing others?

    Jillzarin Jill Zarin
    Doesn’t @AllyZarin lol pretty?
    1 hour ago

    LOL with Mommies like this, who need enemies?

    • susan says:

      Ally is chubby. Just saying…….

      • Anne says:

        Very rude. Just sayin…

        Cannot believe you comment about these women, but your all no better. Wow look in the mirror ladies and see that you are just vicious, mean and debasing as the women you say you hate.

        • Caitlin says:

          Perhaps you’d prefer blogging on another site? If you don’t agree with the premise (what’s the name of this site anyway?). you’d be better off elsewhere.

        • T-REX says:

          Thanks for stopping by again Ally Shapiro! nice that your a**hole of a mother insists on giving you her new husbands name, in spite of the fact that you see your “real” father on a regular basis!

        • Debbie says:

          “see that you are just vicious, mean and debasing as the women you say you hate.”

          are you agreeing with us? you’re saying that the women we hate are vicious, mean and debasing and we’re are just like them? that’s some turn around, coming from you.


      • jillz68 says:

        She is a pretty girl, but the dress she is wearing in Jills opening family pic is not very kind to her figure. She has stubby legs and wearing a short dress highlights them. You would think with all of Jills money they would pick out figure flattering clothes. She has lovely eyes and must have gotten them from dad.

  150. FLG says:

    I can’t wait to see what Ramona has to say tomorrow!

  151. SweetValley says:

    I don’t care that Sonja is coming off over sexual, she makes me laugh. I love her. So Kelly didn’t want to attend the trip because of Ramona?? I still don’t understand what her beef with Ramona is. I can’t seriously believe she blames her for Scary Island. I thought Ramona did her best to host, considering the circumstances. It was Jill who had the biggest beef with Ramona for that, and it seems like it’s spilling over. Oh and the bit with the brunettes hanging out was a total snooze.

    • cabbie413 says:

      Bethenny said it right on Scary Island. kelly sees things THE EXACT opposite of what’s REALLY going on.

      Everyone can be at movie night watching Snow White and the seven dwarfs and Kelly would swear you just put on a gang-bang porno flick. All those dwarfs and one princess.

      She’s messed up in the head.

    • Crisanna says:

      I agree Ramona did her best as host. I think Jill is not over the whole “Ramona threw me out” thing and has been talking in Kelly’s ear about how horrible Ramona was to her (Kelly) because Jill wants Kelly on her side. It reeks of Jill’s manipulations behind the scenes since she’s trying to portray herself as a “changed” person. She’s trying to let Kelly take Ramona down.

  152. Stella says:

    When Kelly said that she needs to find someone who is consistent and not demonic I thought well they do say opposites attract. Meanwhile I find it funny that while Kelly was talking about her tragic past to LuAnn, Cindy was listening but Jill was focused on her phone and then started talking to Cindy. How nice.

  153. WindyCityWondering says:

    Kelly was not abused and she isn’t a very good actress. After seeing her out of control last year, it wouldn’t suprise me that she has been physically restrained because she is combative and has an assault charge to prove it. She was “escorted” off scary island – a normal person could have gotten on a plane by themself and gone home. She is a liar, she claims real issue that people struggle with (bullying, physical abuse) and makes it a joke for “good tv”.
    Bravo made a big mistake bring her back for this season.

    • boston02127 says:

      @WCW–Totally agree.

      Kelly also didn’t mention her arrest for punching a guy in the face & getting arrested for it. Guess that didn’t count as abuse or bullying.

      • FLG says:

        WCW and Boston

        HUGE applause!

      • nathania says:

        that’s such a joke isn’t .

        that was like 2 years ago.

        but someone slapped her 20 years ago. wtf???

        only kelly would be stupid enough to bring up “abuse” from two decades ago when she punched a guy like last year and expect sympathy.

        that is one effed up broad. and judging from the kid gloves the producers are handling her with this season I strongly suspect she went down on the whole production crew, because nothing else explains why they would allow lou ann to plan a trip on which the people that bore witness to kelly’s breakdown are each demonized (well, not just a trip, but an entire season). it’s literally insane. it’s as if there is retribution, but the thing is, those women did NOTHING to kelly. Kelly embarassed the living hell out of herself because she had a bad drug interaction or couldn’t get her stash through customs or whatever. Those women just happened to be there, and that is ALL they are guilty of. But it’s like this entire season is written as revenge. I am starting to wonder if ‘a tv show’ was part of the divorce settlement from the count to the countess and she is really calling all the shots, making up for not going to scary island last year. because who the hell really believes that she is ‘planning’ this. whatever.

    • nathania says:

      yeah, I get it reading that producers blog…

      it all makes sense now.

      they (the producers) have equal contempt for ALL the cast mates. period. they don’t like any of them. that’s why they continue to completely screw up casting decisions. and as much as they dislike the cast, you can bet they dislike the fans even less. you know why? because to them, this is camp. it’s a telenovela, etc, it’s a cheap soap, filler between commercials which is where the real money is made. if you don’t have a moral attachment to any character because you secretly despise them all, and you are mostly drunk when the scripts are hashed out, what difference does it make who does what. the producers have about as much affection for these woman as a manager at mcdonalds does for his staff.

    • Katiecoo says:

      I agree completely! I don’t buy her abuse claims AT ALL. Her version of reality is her own and it always casts her as the victim and she’s the perp in reality. Would love to hear Bethenny’s take on that.

  154. Adgirl says:

    I don’t believe the poll results. Will every single poll that involves Jill be only single digit differences?

    • cabbie413 says:

      i’m not buying those poll results either. There aren’t that many ppl on ANY of the housewives boards that have an affinity for the brunettes.

      • nathania says:


        I always assume that it is another board where the brunettes actually have fans. because they sure don’t have any fans here.

        I actually wonder, if bravo basically polls the advertisers on whom they would want representing their products. I need to take better notice of just who these advertisers are. I think the advertisers really like Caroline Manzo. They apparently like Lou ann. They like Lisa Van der Pump. These shows are just reality tv soaps and the casts are interchangeable and completely replaceable, without even the need for alien abductions, multiple personalities or , car accidents.

    • FLG says:

      Bravo pollgate!

    • SweetValley says:

      I’ve always been suspicious of it, whether I like the outcome or not. It’s probably fixed in whatever Bravo wants to push. It was almost split. So we must tune in because it could go either way. Really, it says TUNE IN, PLEASE.

  155. FLG says:

    Jill tweeted: Can’t wait for Hamptons..memorial day we move out there!

    I’ll bet you can’t wait Jill……heat getting too hot in the kitchen for you?

    • MichellefromNY says:

      I thought they didnt have a house there cuz they sold it….

      • lillybee says:

        renting somewhere?

        • FLG says:

          Not sure, but part of the original sale agreement was that they would have use of the house for two seasons. That may have now passed. I think I read they bought another place. May be completely wrong. Long day, tired.

          • glammedupthug says:

            I hope ( only for this reason) that they did buy a summer home in the Hamptons assuming Jill will be making a ton of $$ from her book and sheets. And then either Bravo dumps her ass next season or the bank forecloses due to moldy books and fuggly bedspreads.

    • Nancy says:

      She best not go in the sun with her “new” face because it’s starting to melt.
      I’m not kidding. Take a look at her TH interviews. After having surgery on your face you are supposed to keep out of the sun for at least 6 months. Longer is better. But she is going to have a hard time doing that with all her swimming lesson and all.

  156. Dani says:

    HWONY is a terrible show. Each week I say I am not going to watch it, and there I am in front of the TV on Thursdays. It is like a train wreck, but I can’t look away (well I could tonight it was so boring). Really these women talk about bullying and then they talk about each other, and make comments about Ramona drinking to much. A true friend would talk to her if they were concerned, not to everyone around them. Jill now along with Luann are the most hated housewives in my book. Kelly well she just needs to be off the show. Truly could not feel sorry for her in regards to she was slapped. I read the articles about her previous boyfriend. It sounded to me that she was the one doing the slapping. Also, she always say’s that all of this is made up for TV. So my question is: Kelly are you making this up?

    • MichellefromNY says:

      Dani, I’m with you 100%. I’m starting to think that I’m gonna stop watching this show. It’s getting really annoying

      • Rabble Rouser says:

        Doesn’t it kinda feel like you are 3/4’s of the way through a really bad movie? It’s so bad and you get angry for yourself for renting it in the first place or not turning it off in the first 5 minutes but you kept hoping it would get better. But by the time you realize, no this really does suck- you feel to invested just to quit so you finish it. Then you are even more angry and want that 1.5hs of your life back.

  157. Malinia says:

    I’m seriously LOVING the twitter wars tonight!

    How many will Jill delete?

    Blogs are very good this time too! Notice Luann’s last paragraph. Bitchy bitch. http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-new-york-city/season-4/blogs

  158. This is a tweet from Jill:

    Jillzarin : I am sure Ramona’s big surprise is something to do with my assistant. She doesn’t know what I asked him to do and what he TOLD me.

    The drama offscreen is more interesting than the show.

    • Adgirl says:

      OMG Jill’s assistant said something to her about Ramona? Horrors! It must be earth shattering.
      Like what? “Let’s start a I hate Ramona Singer blog?” And Jill probably agreed instantly to it.

    • housewifeaddict says:

      It sounds like it has to do with the wine at the party.

  159. Adgirl says:

    Kelly is angry at Ramona about Scary Island because Kelly is a child and expected Ramona to protect her like a mommy.

  160. FLG says:

    I hope she wears his dresses better than she wears jewelry!

  161. VAgirl says:

    Wow. I never thought that in my ‘5os, I’d be getting such lessons in human behavior by watching this show. Mostly bad human behavior, but to think there are really people out there like these women. I have known some weird and eccentric people in my life, but I can truly say I have never met anyone like Jill, Luann or Kelly. It boggles my mind. But I will keep watching because I really enjoy coming here and hearing everyone’s “opinions” (and they are opinions, Jill, call off your attorney friends), thoughts and discussions about this bizarre group of people and their behavior and what drives it, other than wanting the most air time and selling products.

    • FLG says:

      One of the reasons I watch the show is that these women remind me of women I know in South Florida. Catty, one-up-manship, two faced……etc., etc., etc.!!!!

  162. cabbie413 says:

    Thug in a cocktail dress!!! that’s YOU – Luann dahling!!

    • Adgirl says:

      We know it’s not a David Meister cocktail dress!

      • cabbie413 says:

        I hope Ramona gets a few free dresses out of the whole David Meister thing lol Two women fighting over a designer has to create a little buzz and a lot of googling.

        someone should tweet that – i’m too tired lol

        • nathania says:

          David Meister isn’t stupid, either.

          Luann, the most boring, plain, ingratiating, annoying, vanilla, personality-less person on the planet…


          Hurricane Ramona, whose modeling attempts get national attention. She really is in great shape and she has a great figure. She just REAL.

  163. error404 says:

    Hi Ally “Zarin” Shapiro, I know you lurk here… anyway, maybe you can post again and explain that Sarah Lawrence is like one of those knee-jerk liberal hippy-love kinda colleges where very little bullying goes on. Well, other than intellectual bullying… like “How dare you call Meryl Streep an actress! She’s an actor and you’re sexist!” LOL

    • susan says:

      Ally is smarter than she looks. Sarah Lawrence is a very good school. Rahm Emanuel and Julianne Margulies are graduates. Ally must have gotten her intelligence genes from her biological father.

      • Anne says:

        JJ Abrams and Vera Wang as well. Too liberal arts oriented. You need a graduate degree afterwards otherwise it is a waste of money.

        • housewifeaddict says:

          Is that why she’s tranfering to Brown?

          • quincyil says:

            Brown undergrads find jobs, but many go on to grad schools.

            The Media and Communications Dept at Brown is really good.

            I suspect Ally wanted to get in and did not last year so she’s trying to transfer.

    • Adgirl says:

      I live in Berkeley. Growing up here I learned there are no bigger bullies than the thought police!! Ah-ha! I just knew you didn’t buy free ranch lizard eggs!

  164. jeepers1941 says:

    The sad thing about addictions is it falls into so many areas.
    Alcohol, gambling, sex, shopping just to name a few, but these damn HW shows are to be included. They are just as addicting as anything else. As we all know, it is human nature not to turn away from a car wreck, train wreck, it is just the way we are all built. Curiosity killed the cat, remember..and so it goes…….

    • Nancy says:

      Is that a picture of your cat? We had a gray cat called Martini and a dog called Sherry when we were growing up and I ended up in a 12 step program.

      • VAgirl says:

        lol. Not funny that you ended up in a 12 step program tho.

      • error404 says:

        were your parents drinkers if your don’t mind me asking? our neighbors had an irish setter named Brandy. I said it was because he was red, my sister said it was because they were drunks. I still don’t know.

        • Nancy says:

          I got addicted to pain killers after a major knee surgery
          (which ended my skating career.) I didn’t drink and no one in my family had any problems with addiction so sadly to say I am the first. The 12 step program was the best thing that ever happened to me. People think the “program” is just about stopping your drug of choice but it is much, much more than that. It’s a way of life that anyone would better from. Thank-you for asking about it. In the field of medicine many of people find their way to my shoes (either by their choice or the States choice) and I get the honor of helping them get their life back. 🙂

          • Nancy says:

            Do you think Jill’s an alcoholic? My gut say’s no.
            I think she’s a MAJOR control freak, but I could be wrong. I wonder what Ramona is going to say this morning on her face book? I’m sure Jill had NO sleep last night. LOVE IT!

          • Nancy says:


      • jeepers1941 says:

        his name was Smoky, I just found the pic and finally got it posted. He died several years ago.

        • Nancy says:

          Sorry to hear that. He was good looking. Did you get another cat? We have lost 4 of our cats over a one year time span. It was awful. We now have a seal point and a blue point but they are not domesticated. It’s a challenge
          but they are slowly coming around.

        • Okie Folkie says:

          You had a dog named “Smokey”?
          That was the name of one of my brothers very 1st dogs. He was soooo beautiful and sweet. But a car got the better of him when we were quite young.
          He was such a good dog, a mutt….with collie and spaniel, I think.

    • error404 says:

      this is just me being my weird self… but I include workaholics. I know, I know, I’m suppose to worship them for their “work ethic”, but I know so many men who put in long long hours to avoid actually having to parent their kids or deal with their wives……

  165. cabbie413 says:

    and I wanted to say this

    Luann needs to stop trying to mother all of these grown women and think about MOTHERING her OWN CHILDREN for goodness sakes!

    • FLG says:

      That’s not mothering…..it’s being a back stabbing, know it all, pretentious, busybody. Countess Squash Blossom High Horse should enroll herself into a REAL finishing school!

    • Nancy says:

      Good one. Do you think LuMan reads this Blog?

      • VAgirl says:

        No, I don’t think she cares really,

      • cabbie413 says:

        No Luann doesn’t read this stuff dahling — she’s so above it all.

        In all honesty, Luann is technology challenged as far as I can tell.

      • FLG says:

        I don’t think so either, but Lynn has my permission to give Countess SBHH my email address and I will gladly recommend a qualified finishing school. The do still exist. They may throw her out on the first day of class and just declare her unteachable. In that case, as a last resort, I’ll have to send her to obedience school. Does anyone know if she’s had her rabies shots?

        • WindyCityWondering says:

          She is too old to learn good manners now.

          • FLG says:

            Dear Countess SBHH,
            Please locate a copy of Amy Vanderbilt’s Complete Book of Etiquette. Please read it. After reading and following it, perhaps you can begin to advise your friends and the public on manners and etiquette. Oh, and by the way, According to Jill, you wouldn’t be caught dead in Brooklyn. Ms. Vanderbilt can be. She’s buried there.

    • Dani says:

      I second that!!

    • nathania says:

      well, tonight I asked myself WHAT ON EARTH could be the root of her strange and increasingly peculiar affection for, loyalty to, and scorched earth campaign to defend the honor of, one Jill Zarin. I could only come up with one theory. Deep Burning, Soul-stirring Passion. A romance to end all romances, a deep yearning housewife love that dare not speak it’s name. Then right about then the opening notes of this song started playing in my head. And it won’t stop, lol….

      Atlantic Starr, Secret Lovers

  166. Cheri says:

    I cannot stand Luann, I honestly think she is worse than Jill. Alex is correct she is a thug in a cocktail dress. I’m also sick of the way they are treating ramona but I really am wondering if she has a drinking problem. I’m so frustrated with these idiots

    • VAgirl says:

      i don’t know if R has a drinking problem or not, nut i do know she’s trying to get as many plugs for her pinot as possible.

    • susan says:

      I think the pinot thing is being played as a story line.

    • codystl says:

      read alex’s blog on bravo. I think bravo is using Ramona as a theme for this season. I don’t care for all the talk from the other housewives in their confessionals, either. This is not a good thing to start up as a rumor if you don’t know it for a fact. The “thought” stays in back of everyone’s head and will pop up everytime that person takes a swig. Jill probably started it to take the focus off of her bad behavior.

    • Anne says:

      Alex said that about Sonja not Luann.

      • nathania says:

        on tonight’s show they had her in a talking head saying it about Luann. it was really confusing because I too thought it was about Sonya. But I never actually saw her say it about Sonya. I just assumed she did because the clip was of that episode.

  167. Susaw says:

    They could have easily edited Ramona to show Ramona pouring her Pinot while the stepdaughter was talking. She could have poured it before or after. Anyway, Bravo, I don’t give a flip if she did it DURING like was shown. GMAB.

    • cabbie413 says:

      yea i don think she did it during the speech because she heard everything the girl said and from her comments she watched the entire thing.

      that was a bravo edit for sure

      I like that they are giving Ramona her Pinot points, but i dont like the narrative behind it.

    • Smompy says:

      Exactly…and this is why I find Bravo’s actions at least as reprehensible as Team Brunette’s actions regarding this smear campaign against Ramona, if not more so. There isn’t a single doubt in my mind that Bravo’s editors spliced that scene together from random bits and pieces of film in order to make it appear that Ramona spent the entire lunch chugging her wine and totally ignoring the “bullied” speaker. It’s not just Jill, LuAnn, Cindy and Kelly who are out to destroy Ramona’s reputation, it’s Bravo as well. EVen on WWHL, I noticed that ANdy said some catty thing (don’t remember quite how he phrased it) that was clearly designed to insinuate that Ramona’s a raging drunk. Andy & Co. spent years publicly linking Ramona with Pinot Grigio, and now that she’s trying to use that connection to her advantage, they suddenly start trying to make her look like an out-of-control alcoholic. This deliberate spreading of a negative impression of Ramona could not only damage her psyche or her personal reputation, it could also have a potentially lethal effect on her new wine business. And that’s just despicable.

      I really wish Ramona would think about hiring an experienced law firm and having them threaten Bravo TV with a massive civil suit involving defamation of character and loss of income, Jill’s lawyers were apparently able to get Bravo to basically kiss Jill’s ass by threatening the network about changing the results of some dopey poll in which Jill didn’t “win,” and Ramona’s complaint would be certainly be a HELLUVA lot stronger than Jill’s.

      • nathania says:

        I don’t think it will affect her wine business. If anything it might make it sell even better.

        My fear is that it will affect her clothing business, I can’t remember what it is called, where she buys up bulk closeouts or whatever and resells them. That is her bread and butter and its something she worked very hard for.

        But one thing is certain you don’t act out on this show and not get punished. And she slapped a producer so the producer is going to make her pay. Those producers seem so incredibly bitchy to me. Something about this is just all wrong….

  168. Mt says:

    The clip of Ramona walking in all happy and Luann going this isn’t a hotel or whatever…what is that about?

    • Mt says:

      To clarify, this was in the previews for next week’s episode…

      • Adgirl says:

        I think Ramona was looking for dinner … maybe she was late for the meal so per Klass with the Kountless, LouAnn snapped “This isn’t th Marriott!” or whateves.

  169. Holy Class says:

    I’m surprised the blondes even got 52%. They’re painting the blondes as bullies and all.

    • If you had it like this says:

      Andy seemed a bit surprised. And so did Gayle.

      • VAgirl says:

        Sometimes I think Andy thinks the viewers are stupid just like Jill does.

        • nathania says:


          I am surprised, really, that it was so close.

          I think after the Team Ramona vs. Team Jill smackdown Jill also has a phone team in place. They are not that expensive. There was a rumor that Joan Rivers bought one for her daughter when she was competing in a reality show competition that used phone in votes. And any poll that mentions Jill and boom! the phone league Jill is paying goes into action.

          Because, doesn’t it seem strange, that we go from team Ramona getting like 80% to team Jill’s 20% to 52/48 blondes vs. brunettes. I do not think that these women have that many fans. I wish we could look at the other bravo polls and do some statistical analysis on that. I wonder if they are all accessible somewhere.

    • California35 says:

      I think Andy should just stop with the polls….it was fun, but now with Jill’s winning about ut, it is stupid.

  170. FLG says:

    Dear Countess SBHH,
    Please locate a copy of Amy Vanderbilt’s Complete Book of Etiquette. Please read it. After reading and following it, perhaps you can begin to advise your friends and the public on manners and etiquette. Oh, and by the way, According to Jill, you wouldn’t be caught dead in Brooklyn, Ms. Vanderbilt can be. She’s buried there.

  171. California35 says:

    I’m about to start watching this NY loones… Thanks to the coments, I’m prepared 😛

  172. lillybee says:

    Are there no guest blogs this season?

  173. Katiecoo says:

    I’m only part way thru this episode and had to stop to say Luann is a f’ing bitch. Arrogant, condescending, passive aggressive, demeaning, BITCH.

    • Caitlin says:

      Yeah, girl, this sure isn’t the thing one wants to watch just before bedtime is it?

    • Crisanna says:

      I know! I felt like throwing someone at the TV while watching her….rolling her eyes like everyone is so beneath her.

    • FLG says:

      Unfortunately, those are her GOOD qualities!

  174. California35 says:

    Luanne lecturing Ramona…

    • California35 says:

      “Look what happened with Bethenny and Jill..it went too far…I just don’t want to see that happen between the two of you” ugh you mean you don’t want Jill to take it too far and go after Ramona like she did after Bethenny – so is that a warning??!

    • Crisanna says:

      Ramona did pretty good at holding her own and turning things back around on Luann, I thought.

  175. If you had it like this says:

    Well, I never thought I would say this but… I really do hope they replace this cast next year. I hit a wall with it tonight. I like the blondes okay but realized tonight that I’m pretty bored with them. I’m finding it almost unbearable to watch them all. The brunettes are beyond infuriating. Ramona is now getting the Jill edit. Luann is beneath contempt. She truly is. Kelly kills me with her accusing some of the other ladies of acting for the camera. She clearly is following a script this season. One that she thinks will clean up her tarnished image, complete with one-liners and an abuse storyline. It’s just a little too I’ve never talked about it before but let me say it in a van… with a camera 8 inches from my face. On national television. To justify my BSC behavior. God, I’m such a bitch but I just ain’t buying it. There’s so much manipulation of personal image this year that it’s just infuriating! And frustrating to watch. Jill trying to remain the calm, nice, reasonable one. Not touching Alex (though she obviously still hates her) because she knows the ire that brings and turning her guns on Ramona because she figures Ramona is crazy enough to be able to target and villainize and not get a whole lot of flack like she did with Bethenny and Alex. Trying to paint Ramona as an alcoholic is really irresponsible and hateful. Cindy just seems like a miserable broad with a sucky personality. Bravo has hit a wall with this cast. The brunettes and their fake, kissy ass camaraderie is barf worthy. You don’t get a sense that any of these ladies REALLY like any of their castmates that much. They’re just castmates. And none of them are interesting enough or good enough actors to pull this off.

    Gimme Jersey.

    • nathania says:

      isn’t that sad ‘gimme jersey’…but it’s so appropriate.

      I realize what is up with Cindy. She leads with her brain. Period. And I have to guess that this woman is not and never will be a girls girl. She’s not a pit viper or anything, but she is close with her brother and probably more comfortable in boardrooms full of men. She isn’t going to fit in with a bunch of gossipy women so she chose the most sexual cast member closest to the most marketable demographic with probably the most desirable contacts and bonded with her. She’s all business.

      • If you had it like this says:

        It is sad. Especially since I said I wouldn’t watch Jersey after last season! What a difference a cast change and a season can make. For all the shows….

    • Caitlin says:

      Excellent analysis, and I agree with many of your points. Someone needs to show mercy to this dog of a show and put it to sleep!

    • nathania says:


      that’s extremely bitchy.

      I used to think that they didn’t like certain people on the show. Now I get it, they don’t like any of these women. I suspect that they love Lou ann though, because she’s as miserable and hateful as all the rest of them put together.

  176. lillybee says:

    According to Lulu, Sonja is flashing her vayjay around because she is hanging out with Ramona, WTF.

  177. California35 says:

    I love Sonjia’s hair on the photo shoot.

  178. California35 says:

    Luanne –

    “Ramona better behave herself on this trip, otherwise she is not coming.” uuuhh if she is already on the trip, how can she not be coming…??

    And what is that about Ramona being a diva b..? Look who is talking!!! Luanne

    • Stella says:

      OMG I yelled the same thing to my tv. I’m glad you noticed that too. Her comment was so dumb.

    • nathania says:

      oh god…that is hysterical.

      That is an instant classic!!!!!

      I am laughing my behind off right now, that one went right over my head.


    • Crisanna says:

      I thought the same thing. Luann is really not bright.

  179. If you had it like this says:

    OMG. I can’t take it. Kelly tweeted that people should let season 3 go and she has been overly polite about what happened and that the truth is horrific. Why doesn’t someone come out with the truth? God, I’d kill for some more footage of that. She also said she has a clever sense of humor. She really thinks that. Did anyone notice how she said again that everyone always thinks she’s so pretty and has such a perfect life or something to that effect, in the van? Kelly. NO ONE thinks that!

  180. California35 says:

    SOmebody slap Kelly? Was that after she did the slapping ?

  181. Stella says:

    Ok my 2 cents on the Ramona designer comment. LuAnn started the conversation saying that she was given that dress to wear which I took to mean that she didn’t pay for it. If she’s not buying the dress then shouldn’t it be the designers business if he gives her a dress to wear if Ramona wants to monopolize his stuff. I’m not saying it is good or bad for Ramona to say it but still why should LuAnn be entitled to receive someone’s designs free? Also she’s a pompous jackass for saying to Ramona “do you think I’d the the same as you in a dress?” And what about how RUDE it was to tell Ramona that no one wants to come cause she’s going. And also causing a scene when she scolded Ramona for that. Thug in a cocktail dress indeed.

    • Adgirl says:

      And LouMan called ramona a bitch and that she was bitchy. Quite klassy.

    • nathania says:

      I have to admit, I am glad that the Housewives comment to end all comments was applied to Lou Ann. She really is a nightmare.

      • Caitlin says:

        And seems to be getting worse by the week! Probably just for more “face time” on camera – pathetic!

    • La Dolce Vita says:

      I have to agree with Ramona on the designer incident. I believe R. was telling Lu not to pursue her designer… not saying that designer should exclusively give R. outfits. Ramona was not dictating to the designer, but to Lu. I wouldn’t put it past Lu to try to undercut Ramona.

  182. California35 says:

    Wow and Jill “likes” Cindy..

  183. California35 says:

    Ouch — face shaving on Alex arch..

  184. lillybee says:

    Lol, Tree has picked up Jill’s “I am done with you” statement and ran with it.

  185. California35 says:

    Like on cue – Kelly starts talking about not going to morocco and Ramona, after Jill tells her that she is worry about her going to Morocco.

  186. lillybee says:

    Jill please do not go to Morocco. Stay home and pick your nose.

  187. NYCer says:

    I didn’t mind the David meister thing. I think they are getting these clothes for free. Why take the risk that your castmate will be wearing the same outfit. Didn’t think that was an evil move but LuAnn wanted to stir it up.

    Now, S3 watchers, can we all think back and remember that it was Kelly driving herself so crazy that she needed to be escorted off the island by producers. How has that been erased from memory and Ramona inserted as the out of control diva on the trip. She wasn’t!!!!!

    • Error404 says:

      Nobody agrees to an exclusive unless it benefits them. If Luann actually wore dresses better and wore them often, David would never agree to ramona’s request. Deal with it Luann, he doesn’t want you in his dresses!

      • nathania says:

        I know…

        NO ONE does, I imagine.

        Lou ann hasn’t updated her hairstyle since 1978, her taste in jewelry is frightening, and her one pair of boots are just sad. It’s not a good association for anyone.

  188. California35 says:

    Freaking Luanne!!!! To Ramona- Scolding, the disigner, not calling Jill, no one want to go to the trip because of you, yada yada. She is so disappointed that Jill and Ramona had already talked..lol

  189. California35 says:

    Billing sharity???!! Ugh!!! I remember when she first started it twitting and talking about this.

  190. California35 says:

    What was the indication Jill was talking about regarding Ramona?? She was doing fine…

  191. Adgirl says:

    I can’t wait until Jaquesy Schwimmer watches his cougar on tv. LOL.

    • California35 says:

      Lol – she is probably telling him “darling” don’t watch it, this is for girls only, besides you wouldn’t understand it any ways, please tell me more Boit wine, o want to learn fro you, you are so ansome, darling and some stupid words in French 😛

      Ok I better go to sleep, I’m getting too into scripts… Lol. Good nights…

  192. FLG says:

    Have you read Kelly’s blog? She plugs Jillzy’s $2.19 book! Unbelievable!

  193. Error404 says:

    Kelly’s coocoo blog is up.
    The slap incident happened over 20 years ago. Her dad refers to “inner coconut” which makes no sense and isn’t explained. I think it’s another way of sayings feelings are so 1979 so just shut up because daddy couldn’t give a shit about your feelings.

    • nathania says:

      that was the most ridiculous thing.

      worse things have happened to me this WEEK, jesus. on another note it was hysterical what Gayle King pointed out about Jill sitting back there flipping through a magazine while The Confession was taking place in the front seat.

      I honestly think all those little things that Kelly said last season, those little quips, are all the clever things that she has ever heard anyone say in her life, and even though she really doesn’t quite get the meaning, she just wings them out in a conversation hoping they will have the effect of making people think she has a brain. Because if there is one thing she is not, it’s witty.

      Although she said the wittiest thing I’ve ever heard her say tonight when she said, ‘that has toaster oven written all over it’, about Sonya’s photo shoot.

  194. California35 says:

    Lynn, I can’t wait until your recap tomorrow,,,thank you thank you thank you agin for creating this place…. Good night everyone.

  195. lillybee says:

    Lulu really outdid herself on bringing the nasty tonight.

    • jeepers1941 says:

      Well Lilly,
      Did what did you think about this show? I was so pissed at LULU and KOOKOO.
      First of all, I am a survivor of domestic abuse and in saying that I need to say to KOOKOo.
      If I was a man and you slapped me, hit me, punched me, my immedicate reaction would be to slap you back,(in self-defense of course) Bitch.
      How dare she play that card.
      I don’t believe her for one second, that she was abused.

  196. jeepers1941 says:

    As for LULU, she is a complete ass.
    I’d love to take Ramona and Alex on retreat and just let them vent for however long they wish.
    Jill is such an ass, she parades her own daughter and step-daughter around for her own benefit. I’d take you on a very long boat ride and dump your ass in the ocean with no life preservers within miles.
    Sonja is all about Sonja, who is looking for who will bed her next. She will do and does do anything to show off her wares, and they ain’t a pretty site from where I am setting!
    Cindy needs to find another group to play with, her castmates could care less about her, except maybe Ramona and Alex.
    KOOKOO is just a piece of shit, she is evil to the core as is her pals, Jill and LULU. Why would any sane man with an ounce of sense have anything to do with her. She is totally wacked, someone please call child protection agency and do a welfare check on her girls please.
    The only good part about tonite was seeing Gayle King, haven’t seen her in a long time and she was poised as ever.
    Mr. Cohen was his same usual dumb ass self, repulsive as ever, but then I have come to exspect nothing better from him.
    So I am afraid I have come to my usual conclusion, this whole franchise stinks and gets an “F” for poor showmanship.
    Alex and Ramona, get the hell outta this stinking, sinking ship before they drown you both!

  197. jeepers1941 says:

    Once again I have taken the liberty of sending yet another letter to NBCUniversal, to a Kathy Kelly-Brown, Sr. Vice Pres. of blah blah: and it reads the following comments:

    Dear Ms. Brown,
    We are fans of the HW franchise. Recently there have been problems posting comments on the BRAVO blog sites.
    We have asked Mr. Cohen on many occasions to address the situation, but he either refuses to respond and is ignoring us or doesn’t seem to care, we think it is the latter.
    When we click on “add comments” we are getting the following message:
    Validation error, try again, if this problem persists, please contact the site administrator.
    When we look for the site administrator, we find nothing.
    Also, there have been on occasion, some that did get their comments posted, but only after the wording has been changed from the original verbiage by someone other than it’s original author. This is not right and we want to know why this is happening?
    We have contacted several people with these matters in the past and nothing, we do not even get a curiosity response from anyone. I myself have inquired about this matter on several occasions and yet get nothing in return.
    We have decided to take this to the local media and see if they can assist us in our quest for some answers. But before we do that, I wanted to try just one more time to see if someone at NBC will finally address this issue.
    If this does not fall under you’re expertise, then I would appreciate if you see it is taken to the proper people, who will address these issues for us.
    I would appreciate any assistance you can provide to us. Thank you, I will await your response.

    It is my hope that you will support me in my effort to try and at least get some of the issues resolved. And yes, I know that some of you will not approve of my wording and or grammatical errors, however I did try with the best intentions to get some answers for many of us. So help me God, bablah bablah

  198. HD says:

    Is that fortune teller, telling Ramona that her husband has another woman?

    Not that I put a lot of stock into fortune tellers (if any) but I have said this yearsssssssssssssssssss ago. I always pegged Mario as a cheater. I could be wrong but it is just something about him that screamed “I am having an affair” to me.

    • jeepers1941 says:

      where did you see that at HD?

      • HD says:

        The clip is on the Bravo page when Ramona is having her fortune read and Kelly does not want to interpret because she does not to say there is another woman to Ramona or anyone. Which I get.

        Something about Mario since Season 1 scremed cheater to me. I don’t know why it was just something I felt. I could be wrong but I doubt it. One thing I know is men. If he is not cheating now, which I doubt, he has cheated in the past and I am certain it has been with more than one woman. (This is allllllllll just my opinion. I have no evidence to support this. It is just a gut feeling.)

        • nathania says:

          I find it hard to believe that Ramona being the shrewd businesswoman that she is, doesn’t know it. Sorry, but she is far from stupid, in any way. Anyone who can maintain a friendship with Jill Zarin for this amount of time and not be destroyed by it and continue to see the rumored ‘good’ is one tough cookie.

          It’s ridiculous to me this is going to be aired. This couple has a child. Bravo continues to sink to new lows.

          it makes me gag that Andy Cohen was on his little drinking show last night feigning outrage that ahnuld ‘did this to Maria’. Yet here he is allowing the possible destruction of a couple and family, over some stupid fortune teller. It makes me wonder if Ramona stole his high school boyfriend or something, the venom is so out in the open.

  199. jeepers1941 says:

    I knew he really did seem to like looking at all the women that would pass by, but you really think he is a cheater? If he is, it will destroy Ramona for sure. Maybe this is why she has been acting out so much? eh?

    • HD says:

      It could be but I don’t think Ramona knows. She may suspect because all women (for the most part) ultimately know something is off. We just do. Mark my words this will come out later. I just know it. Mario used to teach tennis lessons didn’t he? Not that all those men cheat but he has a pretty much free excuse to be with a hot woman giving her tennis lessons, etc. I can see the whole thing in my head right now. If it was not one of those women, he has been with an escort(s) or something. Trust me. (Once again just me going with my gut feelings.)

      • jeepers1941 says:

        HD, always go by those gut feelings, most of the time never wrong. And it is true, Mario is a tennis coach and I am sure he does meet a lot of young wealthy young women, who would I think more than love to jump his bones if he was so incline to make that move!

    • nathania says:

      it just proves my theory that bravo has little but contempt for all these women.

      who on earth would stoop so low as to include something undisclosed like this in the show, even if it was true. they even let Camille control the announcement of Kelsey’s cheating. boy, they really, really can’t stand ramona.

      and give me a freaking break, if there is anyone, ANYONE, on this earth I would suspect of cheating, it’s bawby.

  200. Kats2 says:

    So guess who ends up in Morocco with the HW’s? Brad! Jill’s ex-employee.
    He’s in the Bravo preview video clip, man in the white suit and annoying voice.


    It wouldn’t surprise me if any of the HW husbands cheat, but I personally wouldn’t put any stock in what some random fortune teller has to say. Whatever the situation Ramona can handle it.

    • nathania says:


      don’t assume the fortune teller is random.

      since Luann planned the trip, any damn thing is possible.

  201. HD says:

    Was it just me or was anyone else hoping that camel would have bucked and tossed Luann in the upcoming episode? LOL! Sorry. She worked my nerves last night.

    • Kats2 says:

      Don’t take my dreams away from me HD! I still think it happens and is the main reason I’m going to watch.

      • HD says:

        LMAO! Okay! If that happens this entire season would have been worth it! LOL!

        • ramonacoaster says:

          I didn’t mind the drama this season. We see that Jill is still the same bitch she’s always been. She got her minions to attack Ramona cause like Bethenny said Jill needs someone to battle and be her enemy. And Luann getting bucked off a camel is icing on the cake. Now all we need is a new New York housewives cast. These girls are done!

    • nathania says:

      i know, she’s so full of sh*t even a desert camel refuses to carry the load.

  202. jeepers1941 says:

    OMG, LULU was all over the place, she is so not class in anything she did or said. If that had been me she was spouting off to, they would have been hauling my ass off to jail, because I would have decked her ass.

  203. Suzieq says:

    I just went on ramona Facebook page and cannot believe all the negative comments!! I don’t see how people can’t see through awful brunettes. Alex and Ramona just need to quit the show….I can’t see any reason for them to come back for another season. :(. I think it would make a huge statement if they quit!!

    • cabbie413 says:

      we should all leave ramona positive comments to show support

    • Kats2 says:

      Why should Ramona and Alex leave, that’s what the boring mean HW’s want.
      Ramona and Alex should stand their ground and call the others out, not quit.

      • Suzieq says:

        I just think u can’t win with ppl like that. Look at ramonas FB page….ppl must be buying the brunettes crap! and if bravo is editing against her…how in the world can she win?? This has to be destroying her….to watch these episodes every week.

        • nathania says:

          I just went there and saw that email.

          wow, jill is really out for blood.

          it’s scary because there is so much of it on film.

          I just wonder if the producers and jill get together and go, look, I’ve got ramona bringing wine, and now i’m going to pretend it was for charity donation, and you just get a lot of film of her drinking it down, and then we can twist it this way.

          mama mia.

          the thing about someone like jill is she is absolutely uneffective without minions. and it looks like she has turned the producers and camera crew into minions somehow. are the brunettes giving sexual favors or what? i don’t get the pull they have with the production crew.

          funny even with all that they still cant win a poll (except when it comes to insanity, like KKK)

  204. jeepers1941 says:

    would serve bravo right if they both left the show. Then let those others backstabers at each other, see how long that would last!

  205. Kukulet says:

    “Inner coconut”? Kelly’s dad thinks she’s crazy too. Nice.

    Kelly has now officially descended to the level of pond scum, IMO. I’m sorry, and please don’t take offense at this, but according to what she mumbled in the van last night-and I think I have this right, but she was talking so low Jill didn’t even look up from her Blackberry-Kelly was “slapped” once.

    Okay…one slap does not make an abusive relationship. It makes a potentially abusive relationship…and while Kelly’s blog isn’t any clearer than her munbling, I gather she didn’t stick around long enough (good) for the abuse to develop further. IF any of it is true…we’ve all witnessed repeatedly how Kelly instigates and then twists it into victimhood.

    Women all over the globe are getting the daylights beat out of them on a daily basis and living in true terror…and this fruitcake is now going to turn another serious issue into spin for her own bizarre behavior.

    C’mon, Bravo. Quit enabling this chick and boot her ass off the show. It’s not fun or funny to watch her keep doing this.

    • Kats2 says:

      I agree with you and have said many times that Kelly is a liar I don’t believe anything she says and there is enough proof from watching to know that manufactures stories to suit and justify her “pond scum” like behavior.

      When she told Bethenny “I’m up here, you’re down there” when she said she was coming on to the show to be “different and real from the other HW’s” when she tried to manufacture the story about Bethenny putting her kids in the press. All of these things are examples of what she actually meant and how she lies and twists the meaning of what she said and meant to recover from just how mean she really is.

      Kelly (aka Crazy) is using this season to try and recover big time from the melt down and mean person we watched her be on scary island. She is looking for attention and pity where ever and how ever she can get it. The story of the “slap” she manufactured was carefully told, not a lot of detail, not really so bad but bad enough to get the pity/support. She did the same thing with the Bullying. Kelly will take a serious topic and cry victim. I think “pond scum” is a very accurate description.

    • nathania says:

      I just want to believe that it wasn’t a boyfriend but someone like her ex or Karl Lagerfeld or some really bitchy queen who had enough of ‘i’m up here, you’re down there’ or ‘free to be, you and me, 1979’, and double-slapped her with his leather gloves or something.

  206. error404 says:


    Aw, so the big reveal is just a petty email proof that Ramoner WAS asked to bring wine to serve.

    I was desperate for back-up to the Alcoholism charge! I wonder if Ramoner is gonna now say it came out wrong, or was a typo. 😦

    • Kats2 says:

      I think the email is great because it is proof that Jill is a liar or makes bold comments without having all the facts. Let Ramona chip away bit by bit at each lie or comment Jill makes. It’s going to drive Jill who is already on the edge crazy. Go Ramona!

      • Laura says:

        It’ll be spun and then spun some more to make Ramona appear drunk, Jill to not be a liar….she’ll deny, lie, cry and probably spit while squawking about it (I just so bet she does that a LOT!)

        I H J Z! lol

  207. Julia says:

    Jill is so upset that ramona used an outdated offensive word to describe jennifers birthmark. But it wasn’t used maliciously as a slur. Meanwhile, Jill retweets a fan calling the today show “retarded” outdated, offensive and malicious. People should be calling her out on that.

  208. violachica says:

    did y’all see JZ’s blog on bravo this morning?
    “Ramona has said horrible things behind my back too. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. At least I own it. ”

    what?! oh I can’t even with this shit. really, JZ, you own it? you’re the queen of denial!!!

    • Lavalady says:

      Jill blames the wine mix up on Darren. I guess he was too busy trolling the internet, making positive comments about Jill everywhere, to follow through correctly.

    • Rabble Rouser says:

      Did Jill lose her notebook because clearly she can’t keep track of her lies. Didn’t she deny trashing Ramona and yelling at the bride?

  209. housewifeaddict says:

    Well – I may be done with the show. I got 3/4 of the way through last night and couldn’t take it any more. I stopped at the scene where LuAnn was trying to pick a fight with Ramona about something/anything, and Alex looked at her and begged her to stop. It was all just too transparent and set up.

    • Error404 says:

      According to jill’s tweets, she asked Luann to get involved and Luann was simply being a good loyal friend. Alex otoh Jill said should have butted out and minded her own business. Confused yet? Direct contradictions have never bothered jill.

  210. error404 says:

    team brunette will stop at nothing to make the blondes look bad.. and plenty of people are buying it. 😦

    tons of people do photos shoots, underwear is often left off for photos as it may create a VPL with tight fitting dresses, and if we were privy to every snaffu or glitch from every single photo shoot ever done, we’d be witness to more vajajay viewing than a porn addicted teen boy. Sonja accidentally flashed a few crew member for a millisecond inside her dining room. Kiki, who claims to have once been a model, is a bold faced liar whom we’ve caught in multiple lies over the years. Yeah, she’s never seen a vagina before in her life, whatever. Pull the other one. And Bravo just HAD to show it, like they HAD to show Kim Richards stumble into a plant, liek they just HAD to show Bethenny pee in a bucket, like they just HAD to show Ginger fart… it’s like they made the whole channel the “bloopers outtake episode”.

    So yeah, Sonja did a photo shoot with no VPL and accidentally flashed for a second, and now the whole world knows, just knows for a fact that she’s a slut who sleeps with 10 different guys every day.

  211. HWlover says:

    stupid question error404, what does VPL stand for?

    • Nancy says:

      Visible panty line.

    • WindyCityWondering says:

      Visible Panty Lines – and since we never see them on Kelly’s skin tight, too short dresses, it would be hard to believe that she always has panties on 24/7!

      • Error404 says:

        And least we forget, Sonja flashed everyonebecause she and Ramoner are drinking buddies. Thanks Lulu. We all know the Countess would never get drunk in public and grope other peoples dates.

        • WindyCityWondering says:

          If Sonja is such a bad influence then why is LuAnn socializing with her too? LuAnn talks about everyone all the time to their faces,, behind their backs and to anyone who is looking in her general direction!

  212. Nancy says:

    Bravo is showing the reunion again!
    Jill is a pathological lier. For real!
    It’s strange to see Bethenny with these women again.
    Run Bethenny run. I’m surprised that Jill hasn’t gotten her attorneys
    to stop Bravo playing these episodes over & over again.
    Keep up those swimming lessons Jill. You are going to need them 🙂

  213. Nancy says:

    Bethenny looked BEAUTIFUL at the reunion.
    She should get back to that weight, STAT!

    Jill’s favorite line is…
    “Are you kidding me?”

  214. housewifeaddict says:

    Ramona has posted some emails between the assistants about Pinot-gate. But Jill’s already backed down.

    The idea that Ramona would have to prove that she was asked to bring a case of her wine is just a joke. Why is Jill making a big deal out of it anyway. I feel for Ramona because disproving lie after lie is exhausting. Pathological liars like Jill just sprew the stuff out and don’t care if they are caught or not, Ramona’s reaction shows that she’s a real person who does care.

    • WindyCityWondering says:

      Jill has lied and been getting away with it for so long that now she doesn’t know how to stop. Ramona is a good friend because she is helping Jill to own what she says and does. LuAnn is not a good friend because she doesn’t have all the facts nor does she allow for the fact that Jill is a liar. We have had too many seasons of RHNY not to have some idea who these women truly are!

  215. Nancy says:

    Ramona’s best line to date…To Kelly

    “I really don’t call my daughter stupid I just said that to make you feel better.”

  216. IndianaHousewife says:

    Here is what Jill sent out via her newsletter “Jill Zarin Exclusive Blog Episode 7”. Not much different from the Bravo blog, why two blogs I wonder?

    Hi everyone! I have been busy this week working on the new packaging for my Skweez Couture Shapewear, Hosiery and Legging line. I haven’t done this in a while so it was harder than I remember! I can’t wait for you to see it. Please follow me on twitter @skweezcouture and Facebook SKWEEZ COUTURE for updates. Secrets Of A Jewish Mother is now out in paperback and has an added chapter on bullying that my mom, Gloria has many words of advice to share. Autographed copies are available at zarinfabrics.com Jill Zarin bedding is available at bedbathandbeyond.com

    I loved seeing Luann and Sonja have a lunch that wasn’t about bashing anyone, just working together to plan a fabulous trip to Morocco. I had heard so much about it and seeing that I am finally kid free, I was able to leave home for a week with my girlfriends. I know how many children we have among us and how hard it is for everyone to leave their lives, so to say “trip of a lifetime” is an understatement. I rarely leave Bobby for even one night, unless I am visiting my parents. When I asked him if he would mind if I went without him, he didn’t try to control me and make me feel guilty. Hearing Ramona say they don’t respect women in Morocco made me cringe. Morocco is not Iran or Saudi Arabia. Her ignorance is no longer a viable excuse. Wait until you see what happens when we actually get there!

    It was interesting seeing Luann and Ramona have lunch together. They never have lunch together unless there are cameras in the room. I am so grateful that Luann tried to stick up for me. Ramona is a hypocrite. She says “talking behind people’s back” as if she doesn’t? The entire show is about us living our lives and then talking to the camera and sharing our real feelings. Is that gossip or a TV show? Ramona has said horrible things behind my back too. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. At least I own it. She admits to putting her foot in her mouth and her opening line says it all, “If people can’t handle the truth, it’s really not my problem.” When Ramona said she didn’t have a problem with anyone I almost threw up. When talking about Cindy she said “I don’t have a problem with her”! No of course you don’t Ramona. You just say and do whatever you want. Then when she doesn’t like the reaction? She attacks. She should realize that her actions cause reactions.

    Ramona has a pattern of doing this to all of us at one time or another. Ramona likes to pick fights out of nowhere. Why did she attack me at her party in front of her guests? Was time of the essence? Why wouldn’t she let Jennifer tell me to my face what she told Ramona? I’ll tell you why. It was because she knew that they set me up and Jennifer could lie behind my back but not lie to my face. She talks out of both sides of her mouth. First she tells Luann
    “I don’t want to talk behind Jill’s back” but then she talks behind MY BACK with Jennifer. Hypocrite?

    Ramona said she would talk to me before our trip. I did tell Luann I didn’t want to go anywhere with anyone without resolving past issues and starting with a clean slate. I felt really good that I had made up with Alex. We agreed that anything we did or said about each other before that day we would forgive and start over. I can honestly say that I have tried to get along with Alex and not have any conflicts.

    Car ride to Spa: finally, I am in my comfort zone with real friends who respect each other and I’m not worried that there would be a knife in my back when I woke up. We all have our little quirks and they get amplified when you are on a trip together. This was a good test to see if we could all get along for 7 days in Morocco. I thought we should take the blondes as a trial run since Kelly didn’t want to even be in a room with Ramona. Cindy’s brother was still reeling from Ramona attacking him at her party and of course there was Ramona’s unprovoked attack on me at her party. In the car, Kelly shared with Luann about her past relationships. Cindy and I were in the backseat and couldn’t hear them. I felt terrible that I couldn’t comfort her too.

    The only bad thing about that day, was the car ride from hell! What should have been a three hour ride took six hours. The driver went the wrong way. It was a nightmare.

    We had such a good time..I wish we could have stayed a week. The game we played was actually one my sister, Lisa Wexler made up when we took a family girls trip to TURKS a few years ago. It was so much fun. I also had received a package of Skweez Couture hosiery before we left for the ladies to try. Thigh highs, corsets and leggings. They all tried them on and modeled them around the room. It was such a great scene, I felt badly they cut it. Oh well.

    Thank you to Teri Jon (Ricky Freeman) for hosting my first annual Anti-Bullying Charity Event. You have a huge heart and you are an amazing designer. Also, Christina DeSimone, my dear friend. Christina started People Reaching Out, appropriately named to raise money for various charities. I asked her to help me with this event. It is so much work and I couldn’t do it without her.

    When I heard Luann tell Ramona how rude she is to block her from a designer I laughed. Ramona did the same to me! I asked Teri Jon to lend clothes to all the ladies. I don’t remember Ramona telling me she wouldn’t accept it since she doesn’t want to wear the same designers as me. I will be sure to tell all my favorite designers to extend her the same kindness. Alex was very nice a few years ago to share one of her contacts and I am always happy to share mine.

    I was so happy my mom, Aunt Cookie, my sister Lisa and Allyson came to support me that day. My very special step daughter, Jennifer Zarin, made me so proud. Jennifer has her masters degree and is a Life Coach. She started a Facebook page called The Birthmark Project. I hope people who connected to Jennifer and to what we are trying to do will LIKE her page. You can contact Jennifer through Facebook.

    I was so overwhelmed after her speech. When Ramona came over to me and said “you didn’t notice her face is deformed,” I didn’t even know what to say. Now I know why Kelly won’t let her around her children. Can you imagine if Jennifer heard that? (Of course she did now) I am embarrassed by her behavior. My mother always told me you become more of who you are when you get older. Ramona is getting more “Rameana” every week.

    I need to address the Darren/Ramona wine issue. It really was like a game of Telephone. I told Darren to do something. He may not have done exactly what I asked and we got a different result. As far as I knew, I asked my assistant to get auction items. I told Darren to contact all the girls to see if they wanted to promote their products. The caterer ordered colorful martinis (which we paid for!) but most of the guests drank soft drinks and water since it was 11AM when it began. If we needed wine for the party, we would have asked for 10 cases for 200 people (30 bottles to fill glasses on the table and have a one glass refill). I would have sent a car service to pick it up as I picked up all of the other fabulous donations including the four night stay at Canyon Ranch, ReVive Skin Care and bedding from Zarin Fabrics.

    Obviously there was a misunderstanding. I asked the girls to donate something so I could promote their brand. I knew Ramona’s wine was coming out this spring and we called her to give her a platform to promote it on the TV SHOW. That is what friends do. Friends show up at their events, which I did weeks before, and have them put their products in goodie bags or silent auction (did you hear me mention Luann’s CD on the show?) Rather than waste it filling glasses, since many guests weren’t drinking alcohol, I asked her to set it up on the silent auction table. Either way, once I asked her not to serve it she should have said “fine”. Darren was wrong. I told her that. She went behind my back and did what she wanted anyway. The caterer was upset. They didn’t have enough wine glasses and were serving out of martini glasses.

    I have always supported the ladies any way I can. If one of us has success, we all succeed. I have gone to more book signings and product launches than I can remember. In fact, Bobby and I were the only ones at Ramona’s wine event last week on the Upper East Side. Alex had just left but no one else came. I was there. I am always there. Ramona and I have a complicated friendship and if things fester too long it gets worse. WE need to resolve this. I don’t hate Ramona. I just hate some of the things she says or does to hurt me or people I love.

    I was grateful she brought the case but instead of ending up in the silent auction the bottles started to disappear and only to her table. No one else was drinking the wine. I think that she brought the wine as her own stash, for her and her few friends at her table. Either way there was a breakdown in communication from what I asked my assistant to do and what he told Ramona, and what she brought to the party. Like the game Telephone. The most embarrassing moment was when she was caught by the Teri Jon employees re-corking the open bottles to take home with her. Why did she do that? Gross? It’s just vulgar to donate wine, drink half, re-cork and take back home.

    I have to say Ramona and I have always had a strange relationship but something always keeps us connected. This too shall pass…I hope.

    Next week, Morocco!

    Jill XO

    • Error404 says:

      Interesting that she comes right out of the gate with an admission that the girdle idea is crashing and burning. Perhaps letting her fans down easy because she knows it’s doomed to fail?

    • housewifeaddict says:

      She keeps lamenting about the scenes that didn’t make it on air – this time one with them showing off the sleeezewear. HA. I hope the Pinot sales go through the roof with this lame storyline.

      • IndianaHousewife says:

        Her shape wear not getting air time vs. the amount of time for Ramona wine is what I believe is behind all of the Ramona bashing.

        Ramona already and established business person has seen Bethenny’s success and was paying attention. Jill on the other hand can’t even get them to mention her products while filming.

    • Austin says:

      Is she for real? Nearly every accusation she leveled against Ramona could just as easily be said about her with plenty of video to back it up.

      Projection much, Jill?

  217. WindyCityWondering says:

    Kelly needs to just go away – she complains about sharks, bottomfeeders and minnow, yet she hangs around with snakes and shrews.

    • Error404 says:

      A minnow is a small fish and only boldfaced golddiggers like Kiki and lulu would dismiss small fish as men who don’t deserve to be with them. Because who wouldn’t want a crazy bitch who hates sex as wife?

  218. Kell_Has_Big_Shoulders says:

    Jill really pisses me off!!! Her blog is full of CRAP!! She is making this season all about Ramona being the bad person, the liar, the bitch, the drunk. I don’t like it one bit. Ramona was not gossiping about Jill at her event it was the bride Jennifer who came up to her and told her about your horrendous behavior at her wedding. Ramona is a person who can’t hide her feelings. She was in the moment when she confronted you at her event. She had enough. I like Alex’s blog she tells us the truth of what happened behind the scenes.
    Luann is a ROYAL BITCH!!! Can’t stand her I really want someone to put her in her place like Bethenny did.

  219. Kell_Has_Big_Shoulders says:

    @ WindyCityWondering says:
    Kelly needs to just go away – she complains about sharks, bottomfeeders and minnow, yet she hangs around with snakes and shrews
    That was very well said! I agree.

  220. California35 says:

    Good morning!

    S3 reunion of NYHW again lol – sorry Kelly even Bravo doesn’t want us to forget S3 yet…

    • Nancy says:

      Do you think Shrill knows that Bravo keeps showing these episodes?
      Hope so 🙂
      P.S. Take your baby to the groomers tomorrow and bring Emily with you!
      Good luck! 🙂

  221. Okie Folkie says:

    G’mornin’ ya’ll!

    WOW! Nearly 600 posts, when I left last night there was something like 140….this place has been busy.

    Is anyone else watching the reunion shows from S3 this mornin’? I saw D.C. earlier, and, know I kinda wish they hadnt canceled it.

    We finally got our T-storms! Although, I slept through most of ’em…..

  222. WindyCityWondering says:

    One of Jill’s biggest problems is that she is a LIAR – it is very hard to get people to trust you once they know what you are. Jill picks words out of a whole conversation to make what she says not a lie. Jennifer tried to get into what happened at her wedding so Jill smothered her in a fake bear hug – then she ran back into the party she left in disgrace to claim she was fine with Jennifer! Jill complains about being ambushed but that is exactly what she did to Jennifer…..Jill can be fine with Jennifer but it doesn’t address the real issue – WHAT YOU DID AT THE WEDDING!

  223. housewifeaddict says:

    I call BS:
    Jill’s blog:
    “Rather than waste it filling glasses, since many guests weren’t drinking alcohol, I asked her to set it up on the silent auction table. Either way, once I asked her not to serve it she should have said “fine”. Darren was wrong. I told her that. She went behind my back and did what she wanted anyway. The caterer was upset. They didn’t have enough wine glasses and were serving out of martini glasses.”

    Ramona was upset because they hid the wine in the back – it wasn’t set up on the silent auction table. And Ramona should never have had to set it up there – Jill’s assistants should have done that for her and had a nice display.

    Should Ramona have directed the caterers to put it on every table – NO.
    Was she wrong to want the wine to be used in the way that she was told it would be used – which according to the emails was for guests at the fashion show – NO.
    Were they both acting like DIVAs and need to get over themselves – YES.
    Is it gauche to point out the “bad” behavior of your guests – YES

    Bottom line – Jill and LuAnn stop pointing fingers at other people and get over yourselves.

    • HD says:

      From what you quoted above about Jill saying she told Ramona to put the wine on the table, why was Jill saying it was supposed to be acutioned off then and Ramona was wrong for opening the case? What a liar.

  224. cabbie413 says:

    They are replaying the reunion (season 3) again today – yay!

  225. I'm in Florida says:

    I really do hate the sociopath that Jill has become–as she tries to redeem her past season’s behavior. If anything, she is meaner, crueler and uglier than the past seasons. I agree, she MUST have been the alchoholic and now is the dry drunk. I never “hated” her before, but now–have to say first time I really hate someone I don’t know. Wonder how she can sleep at night with all the evil she does during the day?

    LuMann is just as crass and nasty as Jill. She is a wannabe, who tries to stick her “crass class” in at the most inappropriate times. Cat was right–she is the s **t stirrer on the show, lower than the snake’s belly crawling in her own excrement.

    Koo Koo Kelly–nuff said…Totally BIZARRE.

    Love Ramona–watch your back, girl we will look out for you as well. Don’t let the animals nip at your ankles–you are so far above them!

    Thanks for the place to vent, Lynn and Q. Wonderful wonderful..I feel better already!

  226. Kats2 says:

    New girl is really unattractive, what an unfortunate face and bad personality. BTW I think the bad personality makes her look uglier than she really is. I see her and I think harsh mean girl.

    She’s a single mom and has a successful business but there are so many other choices out there that would have been so much more interesting. Why did Bravo ever think she would be a good addition to this franchise?

    • WindyCityWondering says:

      I give Cindy props for the faces of WTF when LuAnn and Kelly were going on about how hard it is to be single women raising children and who they want good men to take care of them.

  227. QuestionForLynn says:

    Hi Lynn,
    Love your blog. Been reading for a while but never comment to much because I am always in a rush and to be honest I don’t care for the bickering that goes on. It angers me that people have the nerve to harass you for stating how you feel about a vile, mean, vicious, hateful person. (JILL)
    I have a question for you. I see you get hell for having a blog titled, well it’s actually not titled IHJZ, but having a blog that clearly states IHJZ.
    So, if someone had a blog called “I hate Bethenny” :(I don’t even want to write the whole url ):
    Would you harass and taunt them like people do you?
    I’m just curious. Again, I see you get Hell, and you obviously were the only brave one to do a blog like this, so just wondering if you would in SOME TYPE OF MANNER let them know you weren’t happy about it? Maybe to let that person know how it feels if in fact that person gives you a hard time? I know you love you some Bethenny lol.

    I look forward to your response and thank you for providing me with a great entry to read daily. I really hope that my question isn’t a turn off or you think I’m weird or cray for asking. I do commend you for doing this blog. I must say, it feels like you know what I’m thinking when it comes to this particleboard person. (JILL)
    Sorry I didn’t put my email address up there, I have one for work and can’t really use it for blogs and I’m too lazy to make up one through another email client. The one I did have, I was getting loads of junk mail.

    ((:Hugs to you :))

  228. QuestionForLynn says:

    Lol, I mean crazy not cray lol.

  229. QuestionForLynn says:

    If LuMan (I died when I saw someone here refer to LuAnn that way :)p keeps acting like a control freak and getting in everyone’s business like she is, possibly could you do a Post like I hate LuAnn? But not put “countess’ in it? I don’t feel she is worthy enough to even have the title “Countess” referenced to her in any way shape or form.

  230. QuestionForLynn says:

    If LuMan (I died when I saw someone here refer to LuAnn that way :)p keeps acting like a control freak and getting in everyone’s business like she is, possibly could you do a Post like I hate LuAnn? But not put “countess’ in it? I don’t feel she is worthy enough to even have the title “Countess” referenced to her in any way shape or form.
    Also, Sorry about he Typo, I meant Crazy not Cray lol.

    • QuestionForLynn says:

      A friend of mine wanted to ask you something privately. Is there a way she can?

  231. QuestionForLynn says:

    The p showed up? I thought when making a face with the tongue sticking out you put a P at the end. I didn’t mean for that Smiley to even show up.
    : ) p I put spaces there so you know what I was trying to do and it wouldn’t show up as an expression. :/

  232. I LOVE COFFEE says:

    Hi, I’m a first time poster (please forgive all mistakes). I have read this blog from day 1.

    This is for Samantha
    I don’t speak for Lynn (I’m not Luman). But I will tell you what I think

    You want to start a blog about Bethanny – go ahead
    It won’t make me love her less
    Will it make me mad – no
    I could care less about the people that don’t like her
    It will not change my life in any way

    If you want to start one on Luman – I might read that

    Sorry, the harass, taunt, hell you see – I don’t see it
    People have different opinions – Don’t make it hell

    That’s life

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